danmillar Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 I met a gal a few weeks ago at her workplace, a cafe. It was a slow day, and she was in a casual mood, joking around with her co-workers. Her mood changed quite abruptly when it was my turn to order. She seemed upset, frowned, and looked down the entire time. She slammed my change on the counter instead of putting it in my hand. I was cheerful enough, smiling and polite, but she seemed angry or upset. I happened to see her again this past thursday at another cafe, when she was checking her phone, relaxing. We made eye contact, she held eye contact and smiled. I moved closer to her (closer to an outlet as well), and after a few minutes, started up a conversation with her. Her mood was very different than the first time. She was smiling widely, happy, very talkative and animated. She makes an excuse to sit closer (I think or maybe her phone really did need a charge) and we talk for quite a while longer (an hour?). I casually plant the seed for a date. "We should hang out.." she says yes enthusiastically. I get her phone number and she gives her number and full name. She also tells me where she works during the day. She still seems a bit nervous during the conversation but still far more relaxed than the first time. I figure her interest level is relatively high, so decide to text her tonight. I send her a couple of short texts, but no reply. I'm a little confused as she seemed to be quite interested, kinda sorta agreed to a date, and felt comfortable enough telling me personal details like her workplace and full name. Any idea what's going on? Try texting again? Call?
Lansing Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 Don't text her again.. If she didn't respond that is a bad sign. What did your texts say? Much better to send ONE text then a few texts because she might be thinking "arg, this guy is going to keep texting me like crazy". Only chance to save it at this point is to maybe call her in a few days ... don't even mention the texts.
Author danmillar Posted June 9, 2015 Author Posted June 9, 2015 (edited) The text was very non committal: something along the lines of: hey, great seeing ya, this is dan. OK, yeah, I see the problem. I didn't even ask her a question or say anything which might have required a reply. It was just a greeting. :/ My text game needs a lot of work. I'm wondering what to do as a follow up. Text, call, or just visit her. Edited June 9, 2015 by danmillar
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