outdated Posted April 27, 2005 Posted April 27, 2005 She's gone and I'm not sure why. We had a great relationship and grew very close, ie had a lot of the same interests, enjoyed each other's company and seemed to be going somewhere. For once in my life, I actually felt like I was in a good relationship- whatever that means. We reached that hump of 8 months, and within one week we went from happy to splitsville. That was a month and a half ago. She claims she had no specific reason, just that she thought we weren't right for each other. How does one come to that decision so fast? And how good do you have to feel about something before it's right? She has been left by men in the past and she seems to be very bitter about it. For the first couple of weeks I tried to expain to her how much I love her and that I'm not going any place. I even turned down a job a couple of hours away to prove it. (Didn't want the job anyhow, but that's not the point!) Does it just sound like cold feet? She says she still loves me and misses me, but if she truly does, she has an odd way of showing it. She wants to hang out with me, but I'm not ready just yet because now she has me wondering if she was right about us not being for each other. It seems so impossible to believe. Is there a way to get around this baggage she has and move forward, or do I just hang up the cleats and go home for good?
westernxer Posted April 27, 2005 Posted April 27, 2005 She loves you, she misses you, but she isn't with you. Action, not words. Hang up the cleats and head for the locker. Game over.
SadAndLonely Posted April 27, 2005 Posted April 27, 2005 Don't hang out with her. In fact, avoid her for at least a while (if not permanently) and let her figure out what she really wants. And then, if it's you, make her work for it so she appreciates it more next time.
Author outdated Posted April 28, 2005 Author Posted April 28, 2005 Thanks for the replies. Game over.
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