Megas10 Posted June 8, 2015 Posted June 8, 2015 We have been really close friends for like 3 years and a half now in high school. We walk home together, help with studies and often talk in school. As we have similar mindsets and ideologies i started to develop a crush on her. I couldn't hold it any longer. So, after implying the thing a several times, we hanged out together. Went to a café. Talked like for 2 hour and laughed. I implied the intimate with things like: She: You don't have to walk me home Me: Oh please, you didn't let me pay the bill (she actually didn't let me) at least let me follow this part of the protocol (smiling and ironically) A week later i asked her i she wanted to do something but in the weekend, she couldn't. Fine. Next weekend, she excused herself going out to discos with her friends (she always does this on weekends). Rejection??? I didn't care. I noticed i was being to fast i think? And that was the cause of rejection. As for now, im playing the flirting game and she is kinda reacting well. I gave her a unique nickname nad i talk to her when i can in school. My question is: How to get it to the next stage in this situation? I mean, im flirting. Should i be catching her signals? When to push it once and for all? tl;dr: I think crush wants it slow. How to make it slow and when and how to pull the trigger?
d0nnivain Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 Have you initiated any physical contact? Next time you walk her home, hold her hand.
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