Bitter Posted April 27, 2005 Posted April 27, 2005 I broke up with my boyfriend sunday night because he did not come home Saturday night and did not return until 11pm Sunday night. I tried calling him all night saturday and all day sunday. His only explanation on sunday was that he was drunk and mad and didnt want to talk. he emailed me tuesday a four page letter explaining he was out with his friends got a call from a "platonic" friend he hadnt heard from in a year so he went had a drinks with her got drunk couldnt drive home so drove them both to her house. He slept fully clothed on the couch with his shoes on woke up the next day sick stayed there all day sick then wandered back home at 11pm the next night. He said nothing physical happend besides a goodbye hug.. I refuse to talk to him he continues to send lame emails then he called and left a message saying the only reason he went to drink with her was because she just found out she couldnt have kids and this now all of a sudden went from paltonic friend to someone he wanted to have a family with. So he was upset because this is the second woman this year from his past that can no longer have kids and he had to console... And now he has lost me the third women that he ever thought about having a family with... Am I wrong for not caring. There is no excuse for what he did he could have approached things differently.. I refuse to respond to him. I of course still love him but i can never forgive him nor do i want to, please advise what you think... I do not think my man needs to be a comforter for other women l am sorry for there situation but he is my man not theres. Am i wrong?
outdated Posted April 27, 2005 Posted April 27, 2005 Jeez, take it easy. You need to clear your head before you make any irrational decisions. They're the ones we always regret. Make sure you have all the facts about what happened before you put both of yourselves up on crosses. If you mean anything to each other, than you will understand that he needs to be there for friends- male or female. He will understand that he's not giving you the attention or the affection that makes you comfortable enough to let him have female friends. He shouldn't have avoided you- there's no doubt about that. If you were important enough to him, he would have let you know he was fine and what was going on at the time, not after the fact. Give him a chance to clear his head and explain, and if that doesn't work- move the hell on.
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