silverfeather Posted June 8, 2015 Posted June 8, 2015 (edited) Well I guess this thread will do exactly what it says in the title. A bloggish type thread to put my thoughts. I am taking a mental health break from the insanity that is online dating. (it's crazy it's where crazy people hang out). It was a total mind **** and you are never sure what's real and what's not real, so **** that **** I am worth more and I have a lot more to give. I have learnt not to ignore my gut instinct. I think we all know who we should give time to and who is bad news. I have learnt my basic tenet of 'you be nice to me I will be nice to you'. Is post on. You can tell a lot straight off just from the way people treat you much more than anything they say about themselves or their background etc. The exterior of a persona or image is placed lower than principles the way they treat others and most importantly the way they treat you. So who am I currently dating? Or just about dating? I don't want to give his name. I have only hooked up twice with him. Let's call him P. He is a legal secretary. First date was was in a pub. (They are common where we're from). I don't drink alcohol but it didn't seem to matter.It's kind of weird it's a small city where I am from and every place seems to have ghosts from being there previously. Yesterday evening we went to a place I had only been to once before, so no ghosts I guess. It was a cocktail type bar. It wasn't too noisy. But I still prefer coffee type meet ups I think you can connect better. I was veery nervous. He didn't seem to notice though, even though I said so about three times! He mentioned he has some time off booked the third week in June. (Or i think that's when.) He mentioned a road trip or something. Although I don't know if he meant he was just going on one or was asking me if I would like to come along. He wants to go to a car boot (I guess it's like a yard sale?) with me now. It could be fun sort of like a flea market.:-) SO ..do I like him?? I have no idea yet to be honest. I still don't trust myself on judging people. I tend to jump to the worst conclusions. Does he like me? Well why wouldn't he? ;-) I'm joking of course. Whatever happens at least I have had a few fun hours right? Edited June 8, 2015 by silverfeather
Author silverfeather Posted July 3, 2015 Author Posted July 3, 2015 Well I guess this thread will do exactly what it says in the title. A bloggish type thread to put my thoughts. I am taking a mental health break from the insanity that is online dating. (it's crazy it's where crazy people hang out). It was a total mind **** and you are never sure what's real and what's not real, so **** that **** I am worth more and I have a lot more to give. I have learnt not to ignore my gut instinct. I think we all know who we should give time to and who is bad news. I have learnt my basic tenet of 'you be nice to me I will be nice to you'. Is post on. You can tell a lot straight off just from the way people treat you much more than anything they say about themselves or their background etc. The exterior of a persona or image is placed lower than principles the way they treat others and most importantly the way they treat you. So who am I currently dating? Or just about dating? I don't want to give his name. I have only hooked up twice with him. Let's call him P. He is a legal secretary. First date was was in a pub. (They are common where we're from). I don't drink alcohol but it didn't seem to matter.It's kind of weird it's a small city where I am from and every place seems to have ghosts from being there previously. Yesterday evening we went to a place I had only been to once before, so no ghosts I guess. It was a cocktail type bar. It wasn't too noisy. But I still prefer coffee type meet ups I think you can connect better. I was veery nervous. He didn't seem to notice though, even though I said so about three times! He mentioned he has some time off booked the third week in June. (Or i think that's when.) He mentioned a road trip or something. Although I don't know if he meant he was just going on one or was asking me if I would like to come along. He wants to go to a car boot (I guess it's like a yard sale?) with me now. It could be fun sort of like a flea market.:-) SO ..do I like him?? I have no idea yet to be honest. I still don't trust myself on judging people. I tend to jump to the worst conclusions. Does he like me? Well why wouldn't he? ;-) I'm joking of course. Whatever happens at least I have had a few fun hours right? Turns out he is not a legal secretary. He is an actor??? Slightly baffled and amused. He still seems nice to me though.
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