TheKJ100 Posted June 8, 2015 Posted June 8, 2015 (edited) I work at a petrol station which sells groceries, toiletries, all that kind of stuff. A new girl joined 3 weeks ago, she works weekdays and I work weekends. She had a training day on a weekend, and that's where I met her for the first time, spoke for awhile and even swapped numbers. A week later, she came over to mine, during that time, we slowly got closer to each other, we ended up cuddling and kissing (not snogging). We text everyday, and speak on the phone practically everyday. She came out of a relationship 7 weeks ago so she doesn't want to go into a relationship yet, but she has admitted she likes me, and even told the other members of staff that we are seeing each other, we both agreed that we were seeing each other. She has cancelled on me twice about coming to see me, in which she felt guilty about as she text me asking if I was annoyed with her (because she cancelled twice). I'm not massively experienced with dating/seeing/getting into a relationship with women so I was just wondering what people on here thought about this 'situation'. Does she like me? Am I a rebound from her last relationship or does she actually want a relationship with me but is scared it will turn out bad? Edited June 8, 2015 by TheKJ100
Clarence_Boddicker Posted June 8, 2015 Posted June 8, 2015 You could be a possible fling or she's really undecided about what she wants. If you can deal with it, just go with the flow. Have feelings for her, but you probably can't realistically expect her to commit to you. If you can't control falling in love, you may want to break things off, until she knows what she wants & is ready for a relationship. 1
PogoStick Posted June 8, 2015 Posted June 8, 2015 Agreed, protect your heart first. If you can handle it then casually date her and see where it goes. However, don't' be a pushover and let her treat you like an after thought. Lay down your expectations for making plans together in the future. 1
ThisisIt606 Posted June 8, 2015 Posted June 8, 2015 Since she's recently out of a relationship and said she's not ready for one now... any pull back you feel from her is just that, she's not ready. If you like her, go ahead and hang out but keep your brain ahead of your heart with this one. Try going about thinking if I see her great! If she cancels (again) well... I just know she's not looking for a relationship and I shouldn't be looking for one in her at this point.
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