ggas Posted June 8, 2015 Posted June 8, 2015 Well I'm sure this is not a new topic but anyway here it goes. About 5 months ago I got out of a very serious relationship. I was incredibly hurt and it took NC and lots of self-improvement to get over that. In any case, I am over it now and can say that I am in a very happy moment of my life. Work is going well, I'm building an amazing group of friends and I am very optimistic about the future. Just one thing... Recently, I reconnected with this girl. When we met 2 years ago she was with this dude. Funny enough we didn't like each other that much at a first glance and we kind of didn't stay in touch. 2 years later, she messaged me that she wants to hang out with me and my friends. We started hanging out and to my surprise it was super fun. We now hang out quite often and have lots of friends in common. We message each other very often and overall have a good time together although we needle each other at every step In the last few days however, we went a bit further. We started flirting with each other and we even kissed once. Before we kissed she told that although she is single now she is still in a delicate stage with her ex but that she likes me but also wants to be fair. She said she wants to give 100% but that it's not possible right now because of her ex and also because we are in the same group of friends and she doesn't want to ruin that. I told her I understand and we can still be friends. I mean we are both adults so we can rationalise the situation. Still, we kissed after this discussion. Today I received a message from her that she wants to meet me to "finish the conversation". I'm not sure what is there to finish after I said I understand and that we'll still be friends and hang out. I like this girl and I don't want to mess things. So your opinion on this situation and what she wants to "finish" is most welcome.
jen1447 Posted June 8, 2015 Posted June 8, 2015 I assume she wants to resume the kissing, haha. Was it good? We say things a lot differently than we do much of the time ....you're aware of that right?
Author ggas Posted June 8, 2015 Author Posted June 8, 2015 The kissing was very good and it went on for like 20 minutes straight until she saw one of her exes friends at which point she stopped immediately. I am aware of this type of games some people play. I guess I just want to see where this goes. I don't have high expectations but honestly I think we have a very strong emotional connection. I mean, I can feel her very well and I think she can also feel me quite well. Anyway... I'll just wait and see what happens. Any tips on how I should go about it? I'm expecting "play it cool" type of answers, but something a bit more elaborate would be nice
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