yxalitis Posted June 8, 2015 Posted June 8, 2015 The girl I spoke about in this thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/531227-good-date Rang,and we went out on Saturday night for the second date, she asked me to pick her up from her place,and we would go bowling. I arrived at the agreed time, and after a few knocks she opened the door drenched in sweat, wearing track suit and casual top...she had an automated table tennis machine and was whacking balls for the 30 minutes before I arrived. Considering how well she dressed and presented herself the first time, this was unexpected, but I didn't care, here's someone not afraid to be themselves... She asked me if I wanted a go, and we spent a bit of time bashing innocent small orange balls all over the garage. Then we went inside and sat on her couch. After a bit of chit chat she asked if I was hungry, and proceeded to whip up a yummy Hot Pot... We still had some time until the Bowling booking, so we talked more, and the subject got onto music, and the inevitable (for an Asian) revelation that she loved karaoke... Then she asked if I'd like to listen to her, and she sang some love songs (well, I might add) using her phone. This was not as weird as it sounds, we were sitting very close to each other on the couch, and it was just fun and a laugh. Bowling was great, every time either of us got a spare or strike, we would hug, when she got a strike she jumped up on me. We went home, kissed and cuddled on the couch. She asked what my plans were for the long weekend, and when I said I hadn't planned anything, she said "Good, we can spend more time together" I'll post Sunday's date soon..it was even more unusual, in a good way, than this date...
Author yxalitis Posted June 10, 2015 Author Posted June 10, 2015 (edited) So, Sunday… We had decided that we should spend the long weekend getting to know each other, so Sunday afternoon she calls and we arrange another date…”Oh, I can come out to you” she says. Nice, my flatmate’s away, and it is good to have the other person putting some effort in. She arrives at 6:00, looking nice in a plaid skirt and sleeveless blouse. After a brief hug and kiss we retire to the living room. Now, I hadn’t planned anything, I suggest we go out for dinner, but she is a light eater, and instead I get some snacks, and we sit and talk. For 4 hours. In that time we went from being unsure, to cementing a deep understanding of each other, she is now definitely attracted to me, something she wasn’t sure of earlier. I like her immediate honesty, she told me before Saturdays date that she wasn’t feeling “the romance” but I convinced her to give it another go, and she is glad she did. Her flatmate also told her she should give me some time as I was a “nice guy.” We talked a fair bit about sex, she is very (very!) open, and we fooled around on the couch. WeI explored each other’s body, but “I’m not ready for sex yet” She tells me that she doesn't need a man for sexual satisfaction, as she has awesome toys that give her amazing orgasms. I mention that I ordered a vibrator for me ex gf, but it arrived in the post after we had broken up, and she immediately asks if she can see it. Not only did she see it, but I used it on her, and she took over and tried it herself. Apparently it’s not as good as hers! I then offer her a massage, which I had already talked about, so she goes and has a shower, comes out in a towel, and I give her a full body oil massage, including a bit of oral, before she stopped me with the “no sex yet” reminder. After that, she gets dressed, and we talk more, until around 12:00 we call it quits, and she goes home. We agree to meet for lunch on the Monday public holiday. So far I'm very happy with how things are panning out! I'll post monday's date later., Edited June 10, 2015 by yxalitis
Fleur de cactus Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 Thank you for sharing your romance. I am glad you like her and you are happy. It was interesting to read your post.
Author yxalitis Posted June 10, 2015 Author Posted June 10, 2015 One of the oddest dates I ever went on wasn't supposed to be a date. She was a female friend of mine, more precisely, the best friend of a girl I dated briefly a year or so prior. We had never hung out alone together before, but when I dated her friend, she was around all the time. The plan was, she was to meet me at the place I was staying, which was close to all the clubs we were gonna hit, then play the part of wing man for each other while we were out. When she made it to my place, she was running late, and had to spend a few extra mins getting ready at my hotel room. She was in the bathroom getting changed, and due to the layout of the room, the bathroom light cast a detailed shadow of her very shapely female form against the wall outside the bathroom where I was standing. I remember immediately thinking she looked great, and that was just her shadow! When she stepped out, she was beautiful. We then hit the club. At the club, we were both talking to other people. She was actually helping me hit on women, and I was there to make sure no guys got out of hand with her. By the end of the night, we were having a blast, but neither of us found anyone interesting. As it turns out, we were more interested in one another than anyone at the club. She told me there was no reason for her to talk to any of those guys, because she brought the best one in with her. She spent the rest of the night back in my room with me. The next morning I had to go to work, so I left her in the morning. We talked about going out again, but because of our vastly different lives I think we both knew it would go nowhere. I never did see that girl again, but I will always remember our date. Not all relationships have to last forever. There's a movie in that story...! Next time, more details on the sex please...!
Author yxalitis Posted June 11, 2015 Author Posted June 11, 2015 Monday, I arrive at 12:00, as arranged, just a brief call to let her know I'm on the way. We have another Hot pot lunch, then head off to a romantic windmill farm only to find it closed! No matter, we hop the fence, and start to explore it anyway, she takes a fair few photos of the place, of me and her, of just her, and just me... We start to get frisky, and she suggest we head off to a quiet area, and have sex on the grass... This is the first time she's ever had sex in the open, she was quite thrilled... Went shopping, back home for some wine, more sex (this time in her bed, much more comfortable) then...bowling again, before finally leaving around 11:00 to head of home...she wasn't ready for the first sleep over. I'm playing this one cool, not inundating her with texts, just a call Tuesday night, a text during the day...Thursday comes and she calls me at lunch..to chat... And, we did, freely talking about some big Chinese celeb who passed away from cancer aged 40, and they held a big concert in her honour... This is nice, I can see a future here, but at the same time I'm not all hung up about her...if it lasts good, if it doesn't, OK.
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