ZiggyZoo Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 To answer the OP, I think that it speaks very well to your character that you still want to help her out. I think that it'll be very hard though, it may get hard for you to let go of your own feelings of being lied to like this. This is a tough one for sure. I guess I'd just advise to keep tabs on how you're really feeling and help her establish other means of support so if you get to a point where you need to back away, she's not totally alone. 2
Author broodingsea Posted June 13, 2015 Author Posted June 13, 2015 Well an update. I went around this morning to see her and see how she has been coping and there was another man there. She answered the door and was in shock with a tear in her eye. She did not ask me in and closed the door in my face. I feel like I have been utterly used and betrayed by this person. Heartbroken and empty does not sum it up.
Author broodingsea Posted June 13, 2015 Author Posted June 13, 2015 Well an update. I went around this morning to see her and see how she has been coping and there was another man there. She answered the door and was in shock with a tear in her eye. She did not ask me in and closed the door in my face. I feel like I have been utterly used and betrayed by this person. Heartbroken and empty does not sum it up.
Author broodingsea Posted June 13, 2015 Author Posted June 13, 2015 (edited) UPDATE we had our first ever argument on Tuesday as she posted a picture of herself in one of the appartments she operated from as a prostitute as well as a video of her dancing and doing karioke with a guy she says is a friend from her night out last Sunday. I said this was totally wrong and insensitive when I am coming to terms with the magnitude of this and the possible health impacts eg std hiv etc. UPDATE I went to her home this morning to see how she was and I saw a car was parked outside. My heart sunk. I looked through the door and saw mans shoes and evidence they had a few drinks. I knocked on the door and she came to the door and froze. She opened it and I just looked. I was empty. She had a tear in her eye and closed the door on me without allowing me in after I asked if we could talk. I pointed to the shoes. As I drove home she said they were from her very close friend from Manchester who had drove up to drive her back to York. It is yet another lie. How can one person do this sort of thing to another. I'm broke inside. Edited June 13, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Remove duplicated content and merge threads on similar topic
Gaeta Posted June 13, 2015 Posted June 13, 2015 Well an update. I went around this morning to see her and see how she has been coping and there was another man there. She answered the door and was in shock with a tear in her eye. She did not ask me in and closed the door in my face. I feel like I have been utterly used and betrayed by this person. Heartbroken and empty does not sum it up. I'm so sorry for your hurt but maybe that's what you needed to let go. I cannot imagine this relationship ever being healthy and fulfilling when it started on the worst lie and then her deciding to remain in this industry.
William Posted June 13, 2015 Posted June 13, 2015 Folks, this thread starter had three threads on a similar topic spread across multiple forums, which is prohibited, so I merged them into one topic in BBU. There may be some duplication of content. Please continue the discussion here. Thanks!
Author broodingsea Posted June 13, 2015 Author Posted June 13, 2015 Folks, this thread starter had three threads on a similar topic spread across multiple forums, which is prohibited, so I merged them into one topic in BBU. There may be some duplication of content. Please continue the discussion here. Thanks! thanks william - im just looking to talk and get advice
Fleur de cactus Posted June 13, 2015 Posted June 13, 2015 Sorry your are hurt. I am not trying to be mean but i am not sure what other way to show you the truth i see in your post. The girl is lapdancer, an escort, she cannot change overnight! I was thinking that since you like her you were ready to accept all behaviors including remaining connected to her clients and all kind of stuff. Seriously, was rape story true or she made it up ? I dont know why she lied to you but probably she is telling lies to other guys too. It is her business! It is sad what happened to you but for some reason i am not surprised. Forget about her and move on.
Author broodingsea Posted June 13, 2015 Author Posted June 13, 2015 Its just the lies. The scale and depth of it, and the contempt for me. The lack of remorse and disregard for my health, my emotions. She dragged me back in after the rape and spat me back out. And now to think she has been with someone else - whether he is a client or not so soon after.
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