Golding1994 Posted June 7, 2015 Posted June 7, 2015 So basically, I was with my ex a year we split because I moved away to study. He started to get parboid and was not happy. We stopped speaking for a while then we met up twice over christmas not for long. The signals were mixed and we fell out. He later said he was to scared to get hurt again and was in a bad place. We kept falling out and making up for a good year till I got with someone else. At the time I shouldn't have because I was still in love with my ex. My ex said he realised even more he couldn't loose me and that shook him up seeif me with someone else. Me and the guy had a brake and I met my ex a few times he said he still loves me when he was drunk and then he wanted to try again. I left it because I was confused and continued to date the other guy. We always kept contact on and off. After a year i split with the other guy and my ex was there for me throughout he came up the day after and looked after me. I came back home for summer we got things back on track and started a relationship. Two days later we fell out over what was nothing at all because he didn't seem that fussed if I came over I got angery and lashed out I have big insecurities and he smokes weed which I don't like. I didn't say anything that was hurtful or out of line. But he made out I did and said he didn't know what he wanted, he wouldn't meet up to talk face to face about the situation and said he didn't know if he could trust me. So I said to drop my stuff off and I had nothing left to say the last I herd was a text saying he dropped my stuff off. We haven't spoken since I refuse to text first I had apoligies said I wanted it so bad and he just said I never try'ed to fix things even though I asked to meet up and apologised. I know I should just get on and move on but I don't want to I love this guy and these 2 years apart have made me realise this. I hate not talking im happy the way I am But I also want to have him in my life. I don't know what to do
DexterLS Posted June 7, 2015 Posted June 7, 2015 You both are very confused. This relationship doesn't look like it has any kind of foundation to me. I suggest you both take some time apart to really know what you want. 1
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