mort Posted April 27, 2005 Posted April 27, 2005 Hello- I find myself in an interesting mental conflict and I am looking for suggestions. About eight years ago, before I was married, I was introduced to a young lady through some mutual friends. We hit it off, but never got together after that. We were both in and out of relationships at the time. About a year later, I got married and she eventually married about three years afterwards. We would occasionally see each other when our mutual friends would have get togethers and we would talk, see how things were going, etc. About a year and a half ago, she had a baby and when I first saw her with the baby, I am not sure how to explain it, but she had this wonderful aura about her. It was like she was almost a different person, more beautiful, vibrant, etc. Within the last year, she had gotten divorced; the guy was cheating on her. Since she has gotten divorced, I see her more often, mostly because she and my wife are good friends and we all hang out together. What I am struggling with is that we have so much in common and I feel this strong attraction to her. There are times throughout the day when this is all I can think of. When we are alone, I can feel the same attraction, or interest from her, but I do not know what to do. For now, I keep telling myself that she is a good friend, I would like to get to know her better and the best way to do it is to be a good friend. Who knows, in the long run, it may be better to have the good friendship than to try out a relationship and if it goes sour, it would affect any kind of relationship for the rest of our lives, not to mention my marriage. Any suggestions or comments?
agnf666 Posted April 28, 2005 Posted April 28, 2005 Well if you have really strong feelings for her then maybe you should think twice about your marriage. If you really like this woman more then your wife, then you should do somethng. Don't sneak behind your wife's back and date her... That just makes it more of a mess. Maybe this is just a phase or something. Try to think of other things for example your wife.
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