S0ulsaflame Posted June 7, 2015 Posted June 7, 2015 My supervisor came to me a few years ago telling me how unhappy he was and that he was going to leave his fiancé..we started seeing each other. Why she was still living with him he continued to tell me he broke up with her and was waiting for her to move out...a year goes by and she left....then we got into a huge fight and he's telling me he was staying at his parents and here he was really living with her...she left to stay with her mother because she found out he was cheating on her. I'm not going to get into complete details because it's to much. But he did crazy things like give me a fake key to his house, he would break up with me every other day...tell me he loves me then hates me. Constantly made promises then broke them. in the end I ended up talking to his "fiancé" and everything he had told me was a lie...he never broke up with her...he was and had been working on everything with her...he would go out with me then go home to her. Everything he said was a lie. In the end I went to hr at work and explained we had a relationship and it turned bad and it was uncomfortable....I asked him numerous times to go with me. He ended up getting fired and he was there a very very long time. I never meant for that to happen I figured they would switch one of our job titles. But in someway I think he may have denied it and that's why he got fired. I just feel guilty...even though he emotionally abused me I still feel bad. I haven't talked to him in 2 weeks and he changed his number. I did start therapy. I just want to know if I am a complete piece of **** for this
aloneinaz Posted June 7, 2015 Posted June 7, 2015 Listen, you didn't get him fired. He fired himself and the company filled out the paperwork. Most companies have pretty strong policies against supervisors dating in the work place, especially if he was your supervisor. Yes, you may have "reported it" after the relationship went bad but I wouldn't beat yourself up. He was a douche bag to simply lie through his teeth about what was happening with his other relationship. Sometimes karmas a bitch..
Author S0ulsaflame Posted June 7, 2015 Author Posted June 7, 2015 I keep trying to tell myself that. Everyone I know says he deserved it...maybe the guilt will go away in time. But I do know he hates me.
mystikmind2005 Posted June 7, 2015 Posted June 7, 2015 I always get warm fuzzy feelings when i hear stories of lairs getting caught out. Just a little reminder that Kama is not quote as big a joke as it usually is in the reality of the world.
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