gmalania86 Posted June 6, 2015 Posted June 6, 2015 (edited) Hi! Well I saw this girl which I started to chat with. She didn't really know who I was so she asked me who I was and I just told her the truth. I said that I was just a guy who wanted to get to know her literally. Then she just told me that she was okay with that but just as friends. This happend over text messages. I have no intention to "only" be her friend. My feelings towards her are different than what you have for a "friend". What the heck shall I do? Feels like somebody just took out my heart and literally crushed it. Edited June 6, 2015 by gmalania86
GTR King Posted June 6, 2015 Posted June 6, 2015 she doesn't like you the way you like her if you can't be friends then move on not the end of the world
Author gmalania86 Posted June 6, 2015 Author Posted June 6, 2015 The thing is that she doesn't even know me and I don't know her either for that matter. So I was wondering if she only said this because she have no idea who I am. So maybe I shouldn't just give up. But you might be right, I don't know
GTR King Posted June 6, 2015 Posted June 6, 2015 well how long have u known her? best to be friends for now or move on..
Author gmalania86 Posted June 6, 2015 Author Posted June 6, 2015 Like I said, I have no intention in "only" being her friend. I am not saying that it couldn't start out like that ofcourse it could, but it needs to lead somewhere later on then. Well I don't know her at all, she was my friend's sister's friend. So I don't know her at all, I just texted her.
Methodical Posted June 6, 2015 Posted June 6, 2015 Hi! Well I saw this girl which I started to chat with. She didn't really know who I was so she asked me who I was and I just told her the truth. I said that I was just a guy who wanted to get to know her literally. Then she just told me that she was okay with that but just as friends. This happend over text messages. I have no intention to "only" be her friend. My feelings towards her are different than what you have for a "friend". What the heck shall I do? Feels like somebody just took out my heart and literally crushed it. The thing is that she doesn't even know me and I don't know her either for that matter. So I was wondering if she only said this because she have no idea who I am. So maybe I shouldn't just give up. But you might be right, I don't know How does this happen over text messages when you don't know each other? At what point did phone numbers get exchanged/how did this come to be? Your heart feels crushed over someone you don't know? Yikes!
Author gmalania86 Posted June 7, 2015 Author Posted June 7, 2015 Well I asked my friend for her contact info and he gave it to me. I sometimes want to pursue this but I don't want to be annoying as well so I also want to straight up ask her if I am just not her "type" or if there is some other factor for her rejection.
Author gmalania86 Posted June 7, 2015 Author Posted June 7, 2015 The last expression btw was just to express that I feel really bad. I can't explain it but I just really liked her when I saw her even if I don't know her.
smackie9 Posted June 7, 2015 Posted June 7, 2015 Why are you investing your heart in someone you hardly know or have met.....that comes off as creepy. That's why you get rejected.
Author gmalania86 Posted June 7, 2015 Author Posted June 7, 2015 Why are you investing your heart in someone you hardly know or have met.....that comes off as creepy. That's why you get rejected. Well, I have never felt like this for any girl that I have seen so I can't explain that to you, I have no experience in this field. And it is true that I don't know her, the whole point was to get to know her.
joseb Posted June 7, 2015 Posted June 7, 2015 None of this makes much sense. Who does this girl think is texting her? And why would she answer the texts? Why are you so emotionally invested in someone you don;t even know? Trying to trick someone into going out with you by pretending to want to be friends is not a good idea. If you like her, walk up to her, start a conversation and ask her out. And stop obsessing over one girl.
smackie9 Posted June 7, 2015 Posted June 7, 2015 Well, I have never felt like this for any girl that I have seen so I can't explain that to you, I have no experience in this field. And it is true that I don't know her, the whole point was to get to know her. And she could sense it......
smackie9 Posted June 7, 2015 Posted June 7, 2015 Dude just talk to girls in person and practice interacting with them. Once you get comfortable with that, you will gain proper confidence to ask girls out. Just remember it's not all about you, and making a girl like you. You have to consider her feelings, and what she wants. If she doesn't like you, you have to accept that. There are going to be girls you have no interest in that like you. Wouldn't you appreciate it that they backed off because you don't want to be with them?
preraph Posted June 7, 2015 Posted June 7, 2015 She already knows she is not interested in your romantically. Save yourself a bunch of wasted time and just move on.
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted June 7, 2015 Posted June 7, 2015 I guess gotta be more persistant, but not with her but girls in general
ZA Dater Posted June 7, 2015 Posted June 7, 2015 She already knows she is not interested in your romantically. Save yourself a bunch of wasted time and just move on. Easy advice in theory but totally useless in practice if there no other prospects.
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 Not fapping for a while I hope can remove depression
fred123 Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 to be honest girls know quickly if they like you more than friend or not. I'm sure girls on LS can confirm this....
Gary S Posted June 10, 2015 Posted June 10, 2015 If you tell them your name and they don't know who you are, they are not interested. Women who have a crush on a man never forget his name.
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted June 12, 2015 Posted June 12, 2015 I wonder if its best to look at dating like the lottery
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