Country_Girl Posted June 6, 2015 Posted June 6, 2015 Is it safe to assume when you ask someone to hang out, and no alternative is made, that the other party isn't interested? If I'm interested I always set up an alternative day. But I'm getting mixed signals from someone, hence the question. 1
Author Country_Girl Posted June 6, 2015 Author Posted June 6, 2015 Thanks for the reply Enigma- I don't think he's giving mixed signals on purpose. It's just weird because we matched on a dating site and we are coworkers (it's not against policy, we don't work together and only see eachother in passing). Long story short we hung out last weekend for 5 hours and had a good time. Not sure if it was a date or hangout. We hugged hello and goodbye. This week at work he's been mixing it up with actively seeking me out to downright not saying a word which confuses me. I asked Thursday what he was doing after work because me and another employee were gonna hang out. He said his roommate would be back from out of town and he was taking him out for drinks. Today when he was leaving work he asked of me and my coworker were still gonna hang out (outdoor activity). I said probably not due to the rain. He then said to keep on touch this weekend and text him. I don't plan on doing that, as with all my friends/ and Or potential lovers, I'd like to see some solid plans. Not a "hey what are u doing" text at the last minute asking to hang out. I wouldn't even be questioning this, I hang out with coworkers all the time, had he not liked me on a dating site.
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