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Yep did it again....

 

I'be been out of the loop for sometime, my own fault and personal choice. With that being said around the guys and others that I'm close with including women, I can usually always make them laugh.

 

I'm pretty damn witty and a smart ass at times and things just roll off the tongue. This wasn't the case for my personality years ago it's just something I've started to evolve into and master per say. I've discovered it's not a bad thing as I'm pretty good at making folks laugh when others don't.

 

Toss me in a situation with a smoking hot gal that's seems flirty like I encountered tonight and I turn into a complete disaster. It's there in my head, I've got some banter, compliments ect in my head. I go to execute and I freeze and look like a jackass or turn tail.

 

How Can I overcome this?

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Yep did it again....

 

I'be been out of the loop for sometime, my own fault and personal choice. With that being said around the guys and others that I'm close with including women, I can usually always make them laugh.

 

I'm pretty damn witty and a smart ass at times and things just roll off the tongue. This wasn't the case for my personality years ago it's just something I've started to evolve into and master per say. I've discovered it's not a bad thing as I'm pretty good at making folks laugh when others don't.

 

Toss me in a situation with a smoking hot gal that's seems flirty like I encountered tonight and I turn into a complete disaster. It's there in my head, I've got some banter, compliments ect in my head. I go to execute and I freeze and look like a jackass or turn tail.

 

How Can I overcome this?

I had the same issue....

 

I started treating ALL women the same.

 

If she's hot.. good... I still don't care...

 

If she's ugly.. good... I still don't care....

 

Notice a difference?

 

Exactly... no difference, so that means I won't care if she is hot or not in my own eyes.

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Guess it's a mental block to overcome.

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have more liquid courage.

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Fine In a bar but not out and about with your day, but yes that does take the edge off from my findings.

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