chrigela Posted June 6, 2015 Posted June 6, 2015 hi! I went to my first meetup event ever last night (it was at a pub) and I hit it off with this guy, and we were talking for an hour, I really had fun talking with him, and I think he did too. Goodbyes are always awkward for me, so I just said I have to go and will he be at the next event (which takes place in a month). He said, probably. I would have liked to ask him out there, but I felt it would come across as desperate. But as the next meetup is in a month I feel I don't want to wait that long to talk to him again. I noticed he has a profile on okcupid so he is into dating (stalker much?). Do you think it would be too forward to send him a message on meetup saying it was nice talking to him and I would love to meet him again some time for a drink? Or should I wait it out? We didn't talk about relationships or anything, I didn't know anything about him till I did my research (ok, stalking..) I am 36, female, and am never sure if guys are just friendly to me because I am easy going or if they are interested in me. The worst that could happen is that I see him once a month at these drinks... What do you think I should do...? Thanks..!
salparadise Posted June 6, 2015 Posted June 6, 2015 I say just go for it. Don't second guess what he may or may not be thinking. He may well be thinking exactly the same as you and kicking himself for not asking you out when he had the chance. Send that message. The only thing that I'd recommend changing is drop the sometime and name a time and a place. Nothing to lose, everything to gain. 1
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