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What if she doesnt respond to an invite to hangout but still lets her presence known?


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I reconnected with this girl I went to elementary school with and I'd like to date her or at least reconnect and become friends again. We were friends a loooong time ago. We're both in our early 20s now. I added her on Facebook and we had a little over an hour long conversation from about 12:30 in the morning to about 2 in the morning. The conversation was running smooth and friendly. She asked me what I've been doing with myself etc.. Eventually I told her it was good talking to her and we should catch up sometime. I said it as a statement rather than as a question. Basically, I said "It was nice talkin to you. We should catch up sometime, dont be a stranger!" She read the message and never responded. I've asked my friends what I should do now and some told me that it's just the internet and you cant take a cue like that so meaningfully from the internet. Some have said, "Just because it says she read a Facebook message and didnt respond, doesn't mean she doesn't like you." They basically told me to keep talking to her.

 

So even though she didnt respond to when I said "We should catch up sometime, don't be a stranger!" she's liked my Facebook statuses somewhat frequently since then. Which makes me think, if she was creeped out that I asked her to hang out, why would she still associate herself with me? Why would she still be liking my facebook statuses? Maybe she wasnt creeped out or maybe she wasnt totally disinterested? Thing is, I've come across her telling her girlfriends "we need to catch up!"

 

Should I start another conversation with her? What are your opinions? I can say personally that if there was a girl who I thought might be interested in me and I had no interest in her at all, I wouldnt associate with her at all. I wouldn't Like or Comment any of her statuses. The fact that she's liked some of my statuses makes me think that she's not "creeped" out by me. Again, what are your opinions? Should I have a normal conversation with her and after a few conversations, maybe ask for her number? Thanks.

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