gordonjohn Posted June 5, 2015 Posted June 5, 2015 been dating this girl about 3 months. when we first started dating we texted alot(she initiated alot) but we werent seeing each other as much. now we are seeing each other more often and the texting has basically died should i be concerned by this?
losangelena Posted June 5, 2015 Posted June 5, 2015 You say you're seeing each other more. How is the time you spend together? Would you consider it high-quality? Why worry about a substandard form of contact (texting), when the level of your good contact (the in-person kind) has increased. Focus on the time you spend together. If that was dwindling, along with the texting, then that might be cause to worry.
GTR King Posted June 5, 2015 Posted June 5, 2015 No if she keeps seeing you. yes if she not seeing you much.. are you official??
Author gordonjohn Posted June 6, 2015 Author Posted June 6, 2015 idk what to do. im afraid if i say somethin she will think im clingy i mean we are spending way more time with each other
losangelena Posted June 6, 2015 Posted June 6, 2015 Why is it so important that she keep texting you so much? My BF and I have been together nine months. Some days he doesn't text at all, but then we spend four days together. I don't mind those off days so much.
fitnessfan365 Posted June 6, 2015 Posted June 6, 2015 In all honesty man, your only real concern should be on seeing her in person. If you're spending way more time together, there is no need for texting because you just talk in person. When you're seeing someone, space is actually healthy and increases attraction.
petrichor88 Posted June 6, 2015 Posted June 6, 2015 I prefer to spend time together than texting. I dated my boyfriend for 8 years, spend 6 years in long distance , and we basically become a texting couple. That's what i like to call our kind of relationship. We live in small city, and we're just 15 minutes away. I think spend time together is more important than texting..
Redhead14 Posted June 6, 2015 Posted June 6, 2015 been dating this girl about 3 months. when we first started dating we texted alot(she initiated alot) but we werent seeing each other as much. now we are seeing each other more often and the texting has basically died should i be concerned by this? No, you're seeing each other often so there isn't that much to be texting about especially if you're having good conversations in person. Not only that she was doing most of the initiating, so she may want you to do it a little bit. If she's doing it alot, she'll wonder if you would have done it if she didn't. Text her a good morning and a good night a least on the days/nights you don't see her. Or, better yet, give her a call.
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