ThisisIt606 Posted June 5, 2015 Posted June 5, 2015 I had 2 great dates with a guy I met off tinder. He paid for both, although I offered to pay for the 2nd since he got the first. At first he said we can split it and then he decided he would pay. I said thank you (after him play for date 1 and 2). Both dates ended in a kiss. When he got home after date #2 he sent me a text that was something like: HIM: Thanks again for a fun time tonight:) at the risk of sounding too eager are you still available Friday? ( I originally told him I was avail wed and fri that week) the date we just had was on a wed. I told him I had fun too and I'd have to check about Friday b/c one of my friends was hosting our friend visiting from abroad at her place they mentioned dinner friday night. I said if I do friday, when else are you free? He said Probably saturday ( he had an event with his friends but he didn't seem too thrilled about it when he told me about it on our date) and then not until wednesday. I spoke with my friend and she said yes to dinner friday. I texted him letting him know I couldn't do friday but saturday or wednesday works for me. HIM: Booo:) but yeah you should definitely get together with you friend. Saturday will work. It'll five me a good excuse to skip the (event). ME: lol saturday sounds good HIM: cool. looking forward so it ME: Me too! That was the extent for it. HOWEVER my friday plans with my friend just fell through bc she had to tend to an urgent medical issue. I'm planning on just taking friday to myself as I think it's to last minute/confusing to tell my date i'm free again tonight when we agreed on saturday. My question is, when should I text to figure out what we are doing Saturday (tomorrow). I'm assuming it's an evening date as his plans he wanted to get out of was in the evening. he also THINKS i'm out with my friend tonight and doesn't know those plans got canceled. Should I just text tonight asking if he has any thoughts on what he wants to do tomorrow? (don't want him to find it odd i'm texting tonight when i should be out with my friends) Or wait till tomorrow AM to text?
carhill Posted June 5, 2015 Posted June 5, 2015 Change-up: Call him and tell him your plans fell through due to the medical issue. Listen. A man who wants to date you and has relationship experience will value that kind of communication. Why call? Because it's personal and you've already pressed flesh and kissed.
Author ThisisIt606 Posted June 5, 2015 Author Posted June 5, 2015 Wouldn't Let me Edit, Please Read This One I had 2 great dates with a guy I met off tinder. He paid for both, although I offered to pay for the 2nd since he got the first. At first he said we can split it and then he decided he would pay. I said thank you (after him paying for date 1 and 2). Both dates ended in a few kisses. When he got home after date #2 he sent me a text that was something like: HIM: Thanks again for a fun time tonight:) at the risk of sounding too eager are you still available Friday? ( I originally told him I was avail wed and fri that week) the date we just had was on a wed. I told him I had fun too, and I'd have to check about Friday b/c one of my friends was hosting our friend visiting from abroad at her place they mentioned dinner friday night. I said if I couldn't do friday, when else are you free? He said Probably saturday ( he had an event with his friends but he didn't seem too thrilled about/wanted to skip when he told me about it on our date) and then wasn't free until wednesday. I spoke with my friend and she said yes to dinner friday. I texted him letting him know I couldn't do friday, but saturday or wednesday works for me. HIM: Booo:) but yeah you should definitely get together with you friend. Saturday will work. It'll five me a good excuse to skip the (event). ME: lol saturday sounds good HIM: cool. looking forward so it ME: Me too! That was the extent for it. HOWEVER my friday plans with my friend just fell through bc she had to tend to an urgent medical issue. I'm planning on just taking friday to myself as I think it's too last minute/confusing to tell my date i'm free again tonight when we agreed on saturday. My question is, when should I text him to figure out what we are doing Saturday (tomorrow). I'm assuming it's an evening date as his plans he wanted to get out of were in the evening. he also THINKS i'm out with my friend tonight and doesn't know those plans got canceled. Should I just text tonight asking if he has any thoughts on what he wants to do tomorrow? (don't want him to find it odd i'm texting tonight when i should be out with my friends) Or send something pretty straight forward tonight like: "hey:) any thoughts on what we should do tomorrow? I just got back from (hobby/class) bc my friend i was supposed to see had to get an (urgent medical issue taken care of)." Or wait till tomorrow AM to text?
Redhead14 Posted June 5, 2015 Posted June 5, 2015 I had 2 great dates with a guy I met off tinder. He paid for both, although I offered to pay for the 2nd since he got the first. At first he said we can split it and then he decided he would pay. I said thank you (after him play for date 1 and 2). Both dates ended in a kiss. When he got home after date #2 he sent me a text that was something like: HIM: Thanks again for a fun time tonight:) at the risk of sounding too eager are you still available Friday? ( I originally told him I was avail wed and fri that week) the date we just had was on a wed. I told him I had fun too and I'd have to check about Friday b/c one of my friends was hosting our friend visiting from abroad at her place they mentioned dinner friday night. I said if I do friday, when else are you free? He said Probably saturday ( he had an event with his friends but he didn't seem too thrilled about it when he told me about it on our date) and then not until wednesday. I spoke with my friend and she said yes to dinner friday. I texted him letting him know I couldn't do friday but saturday or wednesday works for me. HIM: Booo:) but yeah you should definitely get together with you friend. Saturday will work. It'll five me a good excuse to skip the (event). ME: lol saturday sounds good HIM: cool. looking forward so it ME: Me too! That was the extent for it. HOWEVER my friday plans with my friend just fell through bc she had to tend to an urgent medical issue. I'm planning on just taking friday to myself as I think it's to last minute/confusing to tell my date i'm free again tonight when we agreed on saturday. My question is, when should I text to figure out what we are doing Saturday (tomorrow). I'm assuming it's an evening date as his plans he wanted to get out of was in the evening. he also THINKS i'm out with my friend tonight and doesn't know those plans got canceled. Should I just text tonight asking if he has any thoughts on what he wants to do tomorrow? (don't want him to find it odd i'm texting tonight when i should be out with my friends) Or wait till tomorrow AM to text? When you make plans with someone, you are specific at that time. You say, I'd like to go. What time and where? You nail that down then. And, then you say, I'll need confirmation by X day and time prior to the actual date. If they don't confirm by that day and time, you make other plans. If they get in touch with you last minute about it, you say, gosh, I didn't hear back and so I made other plans. This sends the message that you are busy and your time is valuable. If he really wants to keep seeing you, he'll know he has to be on the ball. That being said, since you are in this position, you call him and say, "I'm looking forward to tomorrow. Let's nail down the time and place. Call me when you're heading to X place and I'll see you there.
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