biggles6087 Posted June 5, 2015 Posted June 5, 2015 Well I have a thread up called (I don't know what I've done wrong) explaining what went on so if you like to read that please do , anyway I broke the NC after a week altho we swapped a few messages we started getting on great again spoke 3 days non stop just about general thing nothing major which was great. I thought I could handle the friendship zone but everything seemed to be on her terms with the friendship. So I decided I fess up and tell her how I really felt I told her that I couldn't be friends any more and I needed space away from her that I still had very strong feelings and because the friendship was on her terms it wasn't really friendship and I was not going to be used this time we were kind of starting to argue . She replied back that she understood and started saying that she was sorry bla bla bla bla excuses after excuses so I wished her well and walked away I must say I was heartbroken but I felt it had to be done to give myself time to heal.She sent me a text saying that she will never forget about me and she will contact me me in a few weeks and see could we salvage the friendship. I don't know why she says things like that the friendship ended when we became a couple was I right to walk away?
TaraMaiden2 Posted June 5, 2015 Posted June 5, 2015 Yes. Block her and ignore any attempts of hers to contact you. You made it clear you want to sever ties, but she's persisting (even after you told her this isn't working!) and she said she's going to contact you in the near future? That's just her injured ego wanting validation. Block, delete, deny, and do not ever respond to anything she might communicate. That's not breaking No Contact. You responding would be breaking No Contact....
mystikmind2005 Posted June 5, 2015 Posted June 5, 2015 Possibly you need to learn how to be more assertive? And how to do that in a loving way. If you follow good assertiveness practices, there is no reason you could not salvage this.... or at the very least, find out for certain she is not for you.
Author biggles6087 Posted June 5, 2015 Author Posted June 5, 2015 Thanks everyone some good advice posted
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