thorin Posted June 4, 2015 Posted June 4, 2015 It's about 4 months since we broke up, and the relationship was only about 8 months (my first). And even though we've been spending time together everyday, it was bad, she didn't want to become official, I didn't really trust her. I found a job, took a break on a university, work out everyday. Party twice a week, have been kissing with a lot of girls since BU, but havent met any relationship material yet. So why does it still hurt? She was 2 months after a BU with her previous boyfriend when we've met, and she seemed to be healed already. Also, when she called me about a month ago to try to get some of her stuff (after that I blocked her number, and her friends' too), she seemed she's healed from me either. Why can't I get over this?
aloneinaz Posted June 4, 2015 Posted June 4, 2015 You don't normally get over your last relationship until your in a new one. Add to it that she was your first GF or kind of GF. You're presuming she's over you (and she might be) and picturing in your head her w/other guys or BF's while your still single. You need to just be patient and expose yourself to as many potential new GF materials as you can. You'll meet someone else if you put yourself out there and forget all about her. We've all been there.
fireflywy Posted June 5, 2015 Posted June 5, 2015 You don't normally get over your last relationship until your in a new one. Add to it that she was your first GF or kind of GF. You're presuming she's over you (and she might be) and picturing in your head her w/other guys or BF's while your still single. You need to just be patient and expose yourself to as many potential new GF materials as you can. You'll meet someone else if you put yourself out there and forget all about her. We've all been there. Exactly. Keep going. You have to give up on her, your arkenstone.
Author thorin Posted June 5, 2015 Author Posted June 5, 2015 I want to stay single for a while to focus on myself. I like doing whatever I want and not caring to havng to find a time for a GF. Is it neccessary to find a new girlfriend to heal from the previous one?
loveandlight Posted June 7, 2015 Posted June 7, 2015 No do not use a new GF to get over an old one. That is wrong as then you are just using the new GF. I suggest you have lots of female friends and go out just as friends.
treezy Posted June 8, 2015 Posted June 8, 2015 You're on the right track. It's only been 4 months. Give yourself more time to heal and you'll be fine. And no, it is not necessary to find a new gf to move past your last relationship. Please stay strong and all the best.
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