snakeyes Posted June 4, 2015 Posted June 4, 2015 I was with my ex for a year and a half in which i treated this girl really good, she broke up with me within a year and then regretted it but then broke up with me again 4 month later. one day before my birthday I get a picture message with a different number of stuffed animals followed by a text from her wishing me a happy early birthday and wishing my family well and ending it with a take care. I ignored it and the following morning which was my birthday she messaged me again with just a period [i guess she did that wondering if i was gonna reply back to her which i still didnt] what do you guys think of this?
Lizrd3000 Posted June 4, 2015 Posted June 4, 2015 (edited) Man, why did you even post this in second chances? She's not trying to reconcile, like AT ALL. If you have learned anything over your first break up with her, you should realize that you don't even want her back. She obviously dumped you the first time around for another dude. things went south, got back with her plan B (you), and dumped you again after she found someone else. Are you willing to become her plan B, AGAIN? Do your pride a favor, cut this girl out of your life... Please? Edit: You're new, sorry. I'm not trying to be mean, but this pattern is seen daily here on LS. It just gets old. You should look around at other peoples threads and look for similairities, and look how that **** turns out. As for me, same thing happened to me. Was with a girl 6 months, she dumped me for another dude. 1.5 months later got back together for a whopping 1.5 years. Now I realize what kind of person she is (As you should too by now) And just completly cut her out of my life, I don't want anything to do with her anymore, as I know she's ****ing another dude and hoping for me to be her plan B. You're the prize, not her. Get out of this mindset, it gets better my man. Edited June 4, 2015 by Lizrd3000
davidromero43 Posted June 4, 2015 Posted June 4, 2015 what do you guys think of this? Text back "thanks" and then forget about it. 1
OdysseusCA Posted June 4, 2015 Posted June 4, 2015 You are her back-up plan. You deserve better and you will be miserable with her.
aloneinaz Posted June 4, 2015 Posted June 4, 2015 I'd flat out ignore her. She's simply seeing if you'll reply to her, nothing more, nothing less. You don't owe her a reply. You don't owe her ANYTHING.
whichwayisup Posted June 5, 2015 Posted June 5, 2015 I was with my ex for a year and a half in which i treated this girl really good, she broke up with me within a year and then regretted it but then broke up with me again 4 month later. one day before my birthday I get a picture message with a different number of stuffed animals followed by a text from her wishing me a happy early birthday and wishing my family well and ending it with a take care. I ignored it and the following morning which was my birthday she messaged me again with just a period [i guess she did that wondering if i was gonna reply back to her which i still didnt] what do you guys think of this? Block her. Or change your number. Then don't give her any thought, she's selfish and doesn't care about breaking NC after so long. Screw that, you owe her nothing. She has some nerve to wish you a happy birthday when you two aren't even friends!! Ex's like that should stay in the past.
whichwayisup Posted June 5, 2015 Posted June 5, 2015 Text back "thanks" and then forget about it. Don't text back, that opens the door and lets her know that 1)contact is okay 2)she can continue contacting you 3)just will hurt you in the long run.
xpaperxcutx Posted June 7, 2015 Posted June 7, 2015 She wishes you happy birthday after 3 years of NC, so how come she wasn't around for the other 2 years? People only get 1 chance to be with you, and since you've already given her more than one, she really does not deserve a 3rd chance.
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