Apaige Posted June 4, 2015 Posted June 4, 2015 I love being with him, I love our time together all winter long, and then summer hits, and I feel so alone. I know, why stay with someone that makes me feel alone? I just don't know if it's me over thinking things, or if I am actually cast aside in the warmer months. We live 35 minutes apart...not too far, I know, but it's kind of a hassle when you have kids, and pets, and then throw travel time, school nights...so it really does limit our time together, (and I don't mean Life of having kids and pets, and school and the such is a hassle,) I just feel as I am living a double life sometimes. I am in no way ready to live with someone, but there are some nights where it would be so much easier. I am not suggesting that we move in together, just wish I had more time with him. I never feel alone when we are together, he is very much into me, and my needs when we are together, but I just feel like he doesn't think of me as often when we aren't together. I want to be a part of his whole life, not just when it's convenient. Ughhhhh....I guess I am just venting, but if anyone would like to share their thoughts, I'd love to listen.
smackie9 Posted June 4, 2015 Posted June 4, 2015 I dated someone like this...felt like I was a part time GF. So I dumped him because in my mind, he didn't fulfill MY expectations.
SunnySide0418 Posted June 4, 2015 Posted June 4, 2015 Um, 35 minutes is nothing.. does he complain about the drive to come see you?
Author Apaige Posted June 4, 2015 Author Posted June 4, 2015 Um, 35 minutes is nothing.. does he complain about the drive to come see you? He has in the past, and I told him that if I am not worth a 35 minute drive then it's not worth it. It all boiled down to not having anything around me...so we compromised, that we do most of the stuff my way in the winter months, and in the warmer seasons, we do stuff around his area. He lives closer to the shore, so it is better to be down his way in the summer months, but as I have said, it is limited due to life constraints.
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