Brokenpenguin Posted June 4, 2015 Posted June 4, 2015 Hey everyone, I first joined here about 4 months ago when my girlfriend left me for someone else, it was awful to say the least, a week after we broke up they were practically hugging and kissing in front of my face. But slowy and surely with the help of this community and the no contact rule I was starting to become okay. Well they didn't last long, around one month I believe and then about one month after that my birthday came around, she said happy birthday and I broke no contact. Big mistake. Things went okay for a while, she wasn't very nice to me in general and made no effort to make up for what she did and try and fix things and we argue a whole lot but me being an idiot stayed with her (although we havent been officially back together) after all I do care about her a whole lot. Well just a few days back now I found out threw someone else that she is going to prom with someone else and I know she had feelings for this boy before she met me. So that was it the last straw if you like, I'm not sure if I'm over reacting? If it isn't that big of a deal? But that on top of everything else has just made it impossible for me to be with her. The thing is I do love and care about her even if she doesn't feel the same.
minime13 Posted June 4, 2015 Posted June 4, 2015 You broke up because she left you for someone else, then you started fooling around again, didn't get back together, and she's now taking someone else to prom? She didn't quite do the same thing to you, because you never got back together from the initial break-up. She's playing you, but it's time to learn from this. Move on. Don't keep drinking poison. 1
kdgsupermom Posted June 5, 2015 Posted June 5, 2015 Sorry you are going through this. You sound like a good person who deserves a trustworthy committed relationship. Maybe time apart from this girl will open the door to a new fulfilling relationship. kdgsupermom
DexterLS Posted June 5, 2015 Posted June 5, 2015 You do know she is playing with you right? Please have some diginity and get out of this as fast as you can. This time, stick with NC, whatever happens. 1
joseb Posted June 5, 2015 Posted June 5, 2015 Please have some diginity and get out of this as fast as you can. This time, stick with NC, whatever happens. This, exactly. No you are not overreacting.
kasop Posted June 5, 2015 Posted June 5, 2015 She is using you. Once a girl loses respect for you her happy emotions about you are gone. Thats when she will show her true colors. She will use you and manipulate you without a care about how you feel. Idk why some girls do this but they do. Run. 1
Chi townD Posted June 5, 2015 Posted June 5, 2015 Dude, she pulled on leash and saw that the dog is still there. She's going to prom with someone else. Didn't even bother to tell you. You had to find out through someone else. She's playing with your feelings and that's not cool. Go back to NC. She's not worth it.
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