Brigit Posted June 4, 2015 Posted June 4, 2015 A man is a wuss when he stresses about making an event special for his woman. Let me grab a pen so I can write that little factoid down. He basically told her she was a leech. Really special. (Write that down.)
Lokin4AReason Posted June 4, 2015 Posted June 4, 2015 (edited) I look at it this way, nothing is free in this world. if you want you, you work hard for it and you ll receive it esp. in this day in age, everyone want(s) hand outs or take everything for granted ( like that except it ) if he has been footing the bill for everything in the past, its just time to contribute to the relationship IMO ( including financially ), i mean the prom isn't a date to the movie(s) or a walk in the park at when i last went ( and that was some x amount of years ago ) Edited June 4, 2015 by Lokin4AReason
Redhead14 Posted June 4, 2015 Posted June 4, 2015 Prom is in a week he bought the tickets, he is paying for the limo and the after prom club. However the after-after prom over the weekend is in Jersey and he asked me to come with him but he also asked if i can give him $75.00 which is half of my stay there the full price is $150.00 each. Then today he requested I give him the full amount. I told him I was dissapointed, I'm not a girlfirned that ever asks for much or wants him to spend all his money on me but if he is inviting me as his guest and considering he is my boyfriend I would think he would want to pay for me to come. He said "I was looking for a free handout" and was very nasty about it.. I also feel I don't mind helping and I want to go. My dad says I should lose him because my mom never paid for anything while they dated. I'm confused. What should I say to him and should I pay or not? When your parents were dating and going to proms, no one was hiring limousines or going to after prom outtings that were so expensive. I think your boyfriend is handling this wrong, but not unreasonable to ask you to pay for somethings. Since he originally asked you to pay half, give him half. It's not cool to ask you to pay the whole thing after the fact. If he insists on that, pay it and move on from him. The rudeness and asking after the fact is the reason you should break up, not the asking to pay for some of the event. 1
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