Poppyolive Posted June 4, 2015 Posted June 4, 2015 6 years together, dumped at a music festival. I wanted to go see the bands, he wanted to drink in the beer garden. (Which we had done all of the day before) I suggested I'd come find him in an hour. He swore at me, said I treat him like crap and said we're done. I cried for hours in a portaloo. next day he drove erratically home. Where he angrily said we were done. I said I think I deserve more after 6 years. He said sorry with a massive grin, repeating "We are done". I said OK. Walked away. The following months he continued to text bullying & bossing me about.
blueskyday Posted June 4, 2015 Posted June 4, 2015 (edited) After several months of dating, an I love you from him, and confusing hot/cold behavior, I asked him about our relationship and how he felt. He went radio silent for two days. Then he sent me a curt breakup text. He said he wasn't ready for a relationship, blah blah. I was devastated. He also told me in a later phone conversation that he never loved me. Just jumped the gun on that, too. Ouchie. Fast forward to nine months later. We reconnect (mental head slap.) This time, I don't ask him crap. We basically hang out and have sex a few times. He was clear about not wanting a relationship. Guess I was hopeful as well as stupid. Then he calls me (one better than a text!) and tells me he can't have sex with someone he doesn't love. He's out. Part three, six months later, he calls me after my next rebound breakup with someone else. He comes over. I'm crying. He tells me he realized that he loves me. I think, wow, he wants another chance. Then in the next breath, he says he just wants us to hang out. He doesn't know if he wants a relationship. Huh? I showed him the door. Later, he called asking if he "blew it with me." I replied, "We have vastly different ideas about relationships and closeness. Leave me alone." Finally done. Should have just texted it and given him a taste of his own medicine! For my part, I've always broken up with guys in a respectful manner. That means, in person, sitting close, somewhere private, with lots of communication. The last guy told me I made him feel great even though his heart was broken. It's actually just common decency to be respectful and thoughtful with someone you've shared your body and heart with. Edited June 4, 2015 by blueskyday
sportygirl89 Posted June 4, 2015 Posted June 4, 2015 Worst to history is my ex and I were on a valentines date freshman year of college. We got back (I was still a virgin) and didn't have sex while we dated just wasn't ready. He broke up with me after our Valentines day date. He told me he couldn't do this anymore? I guess he couldn't wait for my virginity? It wouldn't be two more years until I lost it so I guess it's good I got rid of him! I came back finding out my other ex after doing a study abroad, that he cheated on me with the girl I couldn't stand. Other one was that my ex moved and transferred here to my home town a month later ended things (3 days of no contact and was supposed to meet up with my former friends who are a couple) then he broke up with out giving us a chance to explain. This was the ex who walked out when I was sick. So honestly I'm tired of dating douches haha.
BC1980 Posted June 4, 2015 Posted June 4, 2015 I dated a guy in grad school for about 4 months, and he came on hard and fast. Acted like I was wonderful. One day, he blocked my email address and cell phone number. I never heard from the guy again. I asked a mutual friend if he was still alive, and she said she wasn't even surprised that he did that to me. It took me awhile to get over that because it was so abrupt. I just don't understand blocking me like I never existed, without even the consideration of a phone call. The last ex, wow, that was one crazy dude. He made an appointment with the pastor who was going to marry us because they required we do some sort of marriage counseling before that church would marry us. Well, he acted all excited for about a month, talked about the wedding and acted so excited about the meeting. He was the one who was so intent on getting this meeting together. The night before the meeting, he drops the bomb that he's done. He said he was going to break up with me in the meeting the next day, but he felt bad so he went ahead and did it. We had been together for 3 years. I seriously almost had a nervous breakdown in the following months and found my way to LS after that. Just an awful, awful time. I've never packed and moved out of a place so fast in my entire life though. I later found out he was likely having an emotional affair with a co-worker, and I had mutual friends with the woman.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted June 5, 2015 Posted June 5, 2015 6 years together, dumped at a music festival. I wanted to go see the bands, he wanted to drink in the beer garden. (Which we had done all of the day before) I suggested I'd come find him in an hour. He swore at me, said I treat him like crap and said we're done. I cried for hours in a portaloo. next day he drove erratically home. Where he angrily said we were done. I said I think I deserve more after 6 years. He said sorry with a massive grin, repeating "We are done". I said OK. Walked away. The following months he continued to text bullying & bossing me about. Ouch that sucks...
amaysngrace Posted June 5, 2015 Posted June 5, 2015 Mine came home to a cleaned-out house and a letter from my lawyer.
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