trogers691 Posted June 3, 2015 Posted June 3, 2015 i've been hanging out with this girl and i have no idea what we are. sometimes it feels like we are a couple, other times it doesn't we've had a talk but we decided to just be friends and take it slow and see what happens well we both went out saturday and got drunk. sunday morning i was cranky, tired and moody and asked what we were. she said "well we really arent dating" i asked why not and she said she just wasnt looking for that right now. i do like the girl so i start of got agitated and asked "is there someone one else?" "how many other guys you seeing" i know i was wrong to say that i was just cranky she didnt act upset and everything seemed fine she just said she was worried i would end up getting hurt but i told her not to worry things havent seemed to change but im afraid i took it to far should i bring it back up or wait to see if she does?
Author trogers691 Posted June 3, 2015 Author Posted June 3, 2015 Dude, you're in the friend zone we have sex though
bmh Posted June 3, 2015 Posted June 3, 2015 When she said she wasn't looking for a relationship she meant she wasn't looking for one with you. 3
Author trogers691 Posted June 3, 2015 Author Posted June 3, 2015 When she said she wasn't looking for a relationship she meant she wasn't looking for one with you. could be true
Halcyon Posted June 3, 2015 Posted June 3, 2015 bu,p please There is nothing really to bump here. She has made it clear she doesn't want a relationship with you. She is happy to have sex with you (for now). Nothing less, nothing more.
ExpatInItaly Posted June 3, 2015 Posted June 3, 2015 She already told you what your status is to her. She doesn't want a relationship. If you have deeper feelings, it would be wise to distance yourself so you don't get hurt.
Redhead14 Posted June 3, 2015 Posted June 3, 2015 i've been hanging out with this girl and i have no idea what we are. sometimes it feels like we are a couple, other times it doesn't we've had a talk but we decided to just be friends and take it slow and see what happens well we both went out saturday and got drunk. sunday morning i was cranky, tired and moody and asked what we were. she said "well we really arent dating" i asked why not and she said she just wasnt looking for that right now. i do like the girl so i start of got agitated and asked "is there someone one else?" "how many other guys you seeing" i know i was wrong to say that i was just cranky she didnt act upset and everything seemed fine she just said she was worried i would end up getting hurt but i told her not to worry things havent seemed to change but im afraid i took it to far should i bring it back up or wait to see if she does? You didn't ruin "it", you were already only friends and it's just status quo. If you want a relationship for yourself with her, you're not on the same page. Stop seeing her.
wizer Posted June 3, 2015 Posted June 3, 2015 Stop getting drunk and stop expecting her to be more than a FWB. Doing those 2 things will make life much better for you, I guarantee it.
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