Author Plaster Posted June 7, 2015 Author Posted June 7, 2015 That's all. That's holding me back right now. This sucks . I hate being sad.
DexterLS Posted June 7, 2015 Posted June 7, 2015 That's all. That's holding me back right now. This sucks . I hate being sad. You have to accept that this is a process that needs time. Some days are going to be good while you will feel like crap on other days. The sooner you accept that she will not be a part of your life, the better. You will then be able to move on faster. Please, do not break NC. Stay strong.
aloneinaz Posted June 7, 2015 Posted June 7, 2015 That's all. That's holding me back right now. This sucks . I hate being sad. It's been only 5 days. Of course you're going to feel exactly like you're feeling. How did you feel after 5 days of not smoking or doing cocaine? Im sure like hell. It's called withdrawal. The waves are going to come and go in duration and intensity. Power thru them. Get yourself busy today. Shake off the hangover and get something accomplished. If you contact her again, you may as well do so after doing some rails, smoking some bowls and lighting a cigarette while your texting.. LOL Stay strong!
Author Plaster Posted June 7, 2015 Author Posted June 7, 2015 Kicking the drugs and fags was easier than cutting her out of my life. Way easier. Knowing that I will be back to square one is what's stopping me from contacting her. It's messed up isn't it. The fact that she was what stopped any pain I had when I was upset. And now I need her more than ever and she isn't there.
DexterLS Posted June 7, 2015 Posted June 7, 2015 Kicking the drugs and fags was easier than cutting her out of my life. Way easier. Knowing that I will be back to square one is what's stopping me from contacting her. It's messed up isn't it. The fact that she was what stopped any pain I had when I was upset. And now I need her more than ever and she isn't there. Dude, My girlfriend of 7 years cheated and dumped me for another guy and all this time knowing my blood test came out showing some abnormalities. My mom previously died of leukemia some years ago and this shook me so hard. It's been two months since the breakup, 11 days of NC, and she hasn't once asked about how I am doing or if the treatment is going well. Of course, it hurts but you have to realise this is not a person that loves you anymore and you're better off without her in your life. You don't see it now because of the pain but, you will, sooner or latter. Stay strong buddy!
Author Plaster Posted June 7, 2015 Author Posted June 7, 2015 The thing is that throughout the break up she has been checking up on me. She's also admitted that she won't be truly happy without me and loves me but she can't come back to me as I hurt her and she doesn't want to get back in the cycle. This is why I have to do NC. I will either get over her or if I don't, time will have passed and maybe we can work things out. When I keep busy I'm fine. It's just days like today I miss her. Loves tough. 1
Emilia Posted June 7, 2015 Posted June 7, 2015 My ex won't talk to me but he keeps checking me out on LinkedIn and he connected with some of my connections. So he won't talk but he is around. He has been like this for a while. It's an absolute mindf***. I'm assuming eventually it will go away.
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