JMAThoughts Posted June 2, 2015 Posted June 2, 2015 Hi there...new to this and well just trying to grasp or understand where I stand. Just hazy and confused.... Here's a bit of my story Just Random Thoughts
MarieB215 Posted June 3, 2015 Posted June 3, 2015 Hi...sorry that you find yourself here I don't have any advice but I just wanted to say hang in there...from what I've been told this limbo is the most difficult part of this and once you have some direction clarity comes soon thereafter.
Fleur de cactus Posted June 3, 2015 Posted June 3, 2015 JMA sorry you are here. I seems like you are trying hard to fix problems you are having. You know the problem and you know that it will be hard to bring back to trust, sometimes space is necessary to give the minds time to rethink and people to miss each other if there is a chance. You are strong since you do not deny the issue. I am very impressed by the way you set up some goals for the future. I think you can find a job and move on. People here will give you more advices. My problem with this is that your blog talks in enigma and it is not easy to know exactly what happened between you and wife. By not knowing what is the exact issue, it is hard to provide advice to resolve the issue. I wish you good luck in the future.
Author JMAThoughts Posted June 11, 2015 Author Posted June 11, 2015 Is it normal?? She wants to be seperated remain friends but still go out as a family? My youngest is struggling when we do that. We went fishing not so long ago and my son had the hardest time after I left the house. It was after 11pm (school in the morning) crying uncontrollably that he missed me and for me to stay there for the week. Or he starts cleaning..which is a trait that I had. Always cleaned and maintained the house. This is what tears me apart. I don't think that it's fair to continue "hanging out" if there is no chance in us reconciling. She has stated it many times that as friends but not as husband and wife. I'm still helping with bills wherever I can at the moment as well as dealing with adding on additional financial obligations being on my own. Here's a background of what has happened Just Random Thoughts: To Blog or Not to Blog?? (Yes it's very creative)
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