nero1 Posted June 2, 2015 Posted June 2, 2015 I'm really crap when I meet a new girl in that I either come across too keen or don't show any indication that I'm attracted to her. With that said, upon meeting a girl at a sports club on monday I'm very happy with how I handled it. We hadn't met before, we were paired up by the instructor, we were joking around, I made sure to make physical contact (nothing major just guided her by the arm and by putting a hand on her back). I asked where she was from blah blah and it transpired she'd be getting the train home. It was late so I offered her a lift to the station which she accepted. I put a CD from year 1997 on in the car and she straight away started talking about the band and how that was her favourite album of theirs. She looked around 18/19 but is actually 26! I'm 21. I wound her up about that, she wound me up about things, it was just good, considering we were only introduced two hours before. I deliberately didn't ask for a number or anything as I know I'll see her on thursday. She spoke excitedly about going back to the sports club on thursday so I want to be clear about what exactly I should aim to do, as in should I ask her out right there and then, should I just get her number, should I wait, etc. The club finishes at 10pm so going out afterwards isn't suitable, and I'm away at a wedding Saturday so can't do the easy option of hey lets go for a drink saturday. We obviously share interests in music and sport, she's attractive, she made jokes and laughed at my jokes, I'm 100% sure she was attracted to me... problem is I've been here before and failed to make the catch. The fish is in the boat, I just need to whack her with the oar so to speak! Plan of action guys?? Thanks!
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