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aloneinaz Established Member

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You have to love bread crumbs, eh? She needs to hear radio silence from you moving forward.

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j_mysterio Established Member

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Radio silence... I love that terminology haha

Woon Established Member

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Dude, the ONLY reason she's not with you right now...

 

.... is because she doesn't WANT to be.

 

That's it. She doesn't want to.

 

There's no mystical force keeping her from being your girlfriend. She could get back together with you today, right now. She just doesn't want to.

 

She probably enjoys all the drama of keeping you hovering as her Plan B. It's flattering to have her ex pining and hoping and leaving you messages and meeting up behind her boyfriend's back. Like a teenager, she's enjoying all the attention.

 

By staying in contact you've actually prevented her from ever having to face losing you.

 

You're HELPING HER to get over you.

 

Worse -- you're keeping yourself from really getting over this breakup. You're continuing to stick your hand in the blender -- over and over -- and then wondering why you aren't getting any better.

 

It's not because she's *so special*. It's because you won't give yourself the time away from her to get over her.

 

She's treating you like a Plan B -- a second choice -- and you deserve SO MUCH better than that.

 

:)

 

This is exactly it and could just have well have been said to me right now, seeing as im making the same mistake by staying in contact with my ex fiance. The pain of not knowing why she is not talking to me is far worse than knowing she wont message me.

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It's going to get better dude. I really dont think I care and if I stay out of contact with her I know I wont be put in an emotional rollercoaster backtracking on how I really feel because of a moment with her that makes me feel like crap. I dont need her. I dont want her. I believe this is the beginning of indifference. Honestly, I think I posted here to show you guys I've made some progress. To show I dont care... Even if the subject matter involves her. Im not angry... And I think that's what counts. That's my progress... Im not angry and I dont care to talk to her.

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