SmartDude Posted June 5, 2015 Posted June 5, 2015 Sorry I skipped to the end of this thread without reading. How I really feel? I hate chasing women. If I don't chase them though, nothing happens. Women just kind of "make themselves available", or they don't. I have accepted this in life just like I have accepted other things im not fond of. In a perfect world I would rather have women present clear signals that they are interested in me...But that is not going to happen ever is it?
misspond Posted June 5, 2015 Posted June 5, 2015 I only hate putting forth effort when I feel it is a wasted effort, and that I'm only getting older not younger, YES WE ALL GET OLD!!!!!, but I feel I wasted most of my youth You have to let go of that. Start from tomorrow. That way, every day is a new day with new opportunities.
Cowboysnation Posted June 6, 2015 Posted June 6, 2015 I would hope no man would chase a woman who is not allowing herself to be caught especially if he is expected to pay. 1
Elam Posted June 6, 2015 Posted June 6, 2015 The decision ultimately resting on the person who has the baby inside her body and pushes it out herself … yes but that is not the same as the post I quoted. I mean there is a whole world of people where the man and woman do approach having babies as a couple, decisions are made as a couple, obligations and responsibilities are shared as a couple, this is not included in the post I quoted. Of course it's ultimately in the woman's body and she has control of her own body necessarily so one would hope a man would choose to have a baby with a woman he can trust and who is a good team with him!! Yeah, good luck with that one. I have a friend who was in a commited relationship with his girlfriend of 5 years. She decided it was about time they had kids. She stopped taking the pill. They had given up on condoms years ago. A year after my friend was paying child-support because his girlfriend grew bored with the relationship and took off, but not without getting what she wanted, which was child-support. Men don't have any reproductive rights. Even if the kid isn't ours we're made to pay for the kid lol. That's why I tell my friends to always use a condom. Heck, take the next step and put tabasco sauce inside the condom after you're done. Doesn't matter if she's your girlfriend of 10 years. You gotta cover your bases or you'll spend the next 18 years paying child-support. A vasectomy is ideal, but there aren't that many doctors who are willing to operate on a 18-35 year old man because we can ''change our minds'' according to the doctor... Tho some shady Indian doctors can do a fine good job about it and you can get it done at the age of 18 if you know where to look.
Cowboysnation Posted June 6, 2015 Posted June 6, 2015 Yeah, good luck with that one. I have a friend who was in a commited relationship with his girlfriend of 5 years. She decided it was about time they had kids. She stopped taking the pill. They had given up on condoms years ago. A year after my friend was paying child-support because his girlfriend grew bored with the relationship and took off, but not without getting what she wanted, which was child-support. Men don't have any reproductive rights. Even if the kid isn't ours we're made to pay for the kid lol. That's why I tell my friends to always use a condom. Heck, take the next step and put tabasco sauce inside the condom after you're done. Doesn't matter if she's your girlfriend of 10 years. You gotta cover your bases or you'll spend the next 18 years paying child-support. A vasectomy is ideal, but there aren't that many doctors who are willing to operate on a 18-35 year old man because we can ''change our minds'' according to the doctor... Tho some shady Indian doctors can do a fine good job about it and you can get it done at the age of 18 if you know where to look. I just don't understand why someone wouldn't use a condom if they are having sex with someone for the first time.
frogs88 Posted June 6, 2015 Posted June 6, 2015 I would say a huge portion of them also just want to learn how to get a girlfriend instead of being a player or sleazeball, they attend those seminars for because they want to know how to meet women through cold approach instead of always having to rely on their social circle, mutual friends, tight-knit social settings such as bars and clubs, university, work, etc. If there are guys following that becuause they just want a relationship they're horribly misguided. The only way that could possible be work if of the confidence boost and there are way better methods to train that than sexually harassing women and taking seminars for big cash from some semi-rapist.
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted June 6, 2015 Posted June 6, 2015 You have to let go of that. Start from tomorrow. That way, every day is a new day with new opportunities. it's mainly insecurity of feeling so behind
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