nicklopet Posted June 1, 2015 Posted June 1, 2015 been hanging with this girl for a month. she has made it clear that she wasnt looking for a relationsip but makes it seem like we are something serious at times. we do have sex alot. im at her place 4-5 x a week and when i go a few days without seeing her she will tell me she misses me she told me i could move into her apartment with her. out of her 700.00 rent id pay 300.00 per month today we had a long hour talk. i asked what we are and she said "not dating" i said how are we not. you want me to move in, you always wanna see me, how are we not. she said we are friends with benefits she said. i was in a 4 1/2 year relationship. im 21. i wanna go out and experience life. i want to do what i want, i dont want someone to hold me back she said :i do have feelings for you, its obvious i do, you are an amazing guy, i think your awesome but i dont want that with you OR anyone" i said but youll go out with other guys? she said yes, theres nights i might go out on dates but so can you i asjed if she would get jealous and she said yes but itd be my own fault because i dont want that relationship idk what to do,,, i like her but feel like im wasting time. but we have a great timr together. we laugh alot and just are great i have no idea what i should do. anyone? any advice?
Popsicle Posted June 1, 2015 Posted June 1, 2015 I wish I could do crap like this, but no, I get attached and stop wanting other men.
Fleur de cactus Posted June 1, 2015 Posted June 1, 2015 You are nobody to her but a f &%% buddy. Dont waste your time, dont move in with her if you want a serious relationships because other guys may f& her in your eyes and you will be crazy. If you are not interested in this kind of relationship break up with her. Find another girl. Be careful with STD. Get tested. 1
Author nicklopet Posted June 1, 2015 Author Posted June 1, 2015 You are nobody to her but a f &%% buddy. Dont waste your time, dont move in with her if you want a serious relationships because other guys may f& her in your eyes and you will be crazy. If you are not interested in this kind of relationship break up with her. Find another girl. Be careful with STD. Get tested. but i could bring girls over
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted June 1, 2015 Posted June 1, 2015 holy **** dude, bang her brains out and stop thinking!! I'm 26 and I already know what I would do. You're still young and you shouldn't have to worry about being tied down yet. Enjoy the sex and HAVE FUN!!! If you're still living at home, take her up on the $300 rent, that's hella cheap.
Arieswoman Posted June 1, 2015 Posted June 1, 2015 nicklopet, been hanging with this girl for a month. she has made it clear that she wasnt looking for a relationsip I didn't need to read any further. She's made it plain she doesn't want to get serious, so believe her. She wants you as some kind of a sexual lodger - have some self-respect and don't allow it. If you want a relationship with a girl, look for a girl who wants a relationship, because you deserve better than what's on offer here. 1
mightycpa Posted June 1, 2015 Posted June 1, 2015 been hanging with this girl for a month. she has made it clear that she wasnt looking for a relationsip but makes it seem like we are something serious at times. we do have sex alot. im at her place 4-5 x a week and when i go a few days without seeing her she will tell me she misses me she told me i could move into her apartment with her. out of her 700.00 rent id pay 300.00 per month today we had a long hour talk. i asked what we are and she said "not dating" i said how are we not. you want me to move in, you always wanna see me, how are we not. she said we are friends with benefits she said. i was in a 4 1/2 year relationship. im 21. i wanna go out and experience life. i want to do what i want, i dont want someone to hold me back she said :i do have feelings for you, its obvious i do, you are an amazing guy, i think your awesome but i dont want that with you OR anyone" i said but youll go out with other guys? she said yes, theres nights i might go out on dates but so can you i asjed if she would get jealous and she said yes but itd be my own fault because i dont want that relationship idk what to do,,, i like her but feel like im wasting time. but we have a great timr together. we laugh alot and just are great i have no idea what i should do. anyone? any advice? You CANNOT move in with this girl. Your girlfriend of the future is going to have big problems, because she'll figure out that you bang your roommate sometimes. This seems like the romantic equivalent of ****ting where you eat. Not good. I think you should tell her that you'll just find a roommate and continue to be an eager visitor, no strings attached. Then, to insulate your heart from falling in love with the wrong girl for the wrong reasons, find yourself another one just like her, rinse, lather and repeat. This won't last forever, so enjoy it while it does. 1
hollycraze Posted June 1, 2015 Posted June 1, 2015 Desperate Nice Guys problem...not really Nice Guys...because 99% of Nice Guys don't have sex. Your case is a little bit different. In Dating, we call her, "fangirl". Yupz, she's attracted to you, but not comfortable and the rapport hasn't been built. Make her feel comfortable and build more rapport with her! And 1 more, you're desperate & needy...this turns her down! Just take it easy...stop whining/begging to be her boyfriend! send me message if you want to know more... 1
Author nicklopet Posted June 1, 2015 Author Posted June 1, 2015 Desperate Nice Guys problem...not really Nice Guys...because 99% of Nice Guys don't have sex. Your case is a little bit different. In Dating, we call her, "fangirl". Yupz, she's attracted to you, but not comfortable and the rapport hasn't been built. Make her feel comfortable and build more rapport with her! And 1 more, you're desperate & needy...this turns her down! Just take it easy...stop whining/begging to be her boyfriend! send me message if you want to know more... how am i desperate and needy
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