iceteaguy Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 Some people try to use no contact for getting back and many others use no contact for healing and moving on this question is for you. So after you have healed and moved on. Does anyone actually still remind friends or low contact and then just fade away??
sober and dry Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 Except my last ex (yet to discover xD), every other one of them just completely disappeared from my life the second NC started. When by chance I see them there are a little of contact but they just act like they hate me and I get a kick of it to some extension xD
ColdandLonelyinAK Posted June 1, 2015 Posted June 1, 2015 I really wish I had started NC sooner. It really is the best way to move on. I've given up on him ever initiating contact. I've blocked him everywhere. It's like a huge weight off of your shoulders. I have a difficult time seeing how people can stay in their exes lives right after a breakup. Perhaps on down the line, when the wounds have healed. Until then, focus on YOUR life. Since the BU, I've reconnected with FOUR friends with whom I'd lost contact because of my relationship, lost 11 lbs., enrolled back in school to finish my degree and have a more active social life than ever. If you go NC, improve yourself inside and out you'll attract the right person. That's what I am choosing to believe. 3
aloneinaz Posted June 1, 2015 Posted June 1, 2015 I think the way to view NC is for you to heal and move forward. This site demonstrates many, many success rates with NC for healing. Yes, occasionally someone/dumper will reappear after time has past w/no contact. They generally reappear after you're over them. It happened to me. I went strict NC, vanished from her life, blocked her on everything. Started dating when I felt better. Moved on w/my life and met my current GF a few months after the ex ended us. The ex reappeared 6 months later wanting me back and was told no thanks. When we first get dumped, we fantasize about the dumper coming back and us telling them to get lost. In my case, I was indifferent when she reappeared. I was over her. The NC gave me time to realize the relationship was toxic and I was glad she ended it. 1
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