TylerC Posted April 26, 2005 Posted April 26, 2005 Alright, so Lauren and I were talking and she was saying how she wasn't ready to have sex yet. I told her I wasn't mad when she asked if I was, but I told her I was dissappointed, which I am. She told me a few weeks ago that we would probably have sex by the end of the school year (June 10th is our last day), but now she's basically saying we won't. I'm just a bit dissappointed because being a 16 year old male I was all excited and now she killed my excitement. I then proceeded to tell her I felt so much closer to her when we did oral than when she just gave me a handjob and the last time I got head was 3 weeks ago. She offered to this weekend but she was on her period and I said we can just wait until this weekend and both enjoy it. She then said "ok, what are you saying?" I told her I wanted to do it more, but we don't have to do it every time together, because I know there is more to relationships than just sexual activity. She asked why I wanted it all the time and I said because I'm a guy, and a 16 year old one at that. She then asked something (I don't remember what) and I replied with "why don't you give me head more often?" then she said "wow Tyler I have to go I'll talk to you in the morning and don't call me back." yikes, what do I do? I'm writing her a note to tell her how sorry I am, but what else, I'm also looking for advice in general to deal with this situation.
westernxer Posted April 26, 2005 Posted April 26, 2005 Tell her you'll apologize as soon as she gives you head.
KissMyTiara Posted April 26, 2005 Posted April 26, 2005 When a girl gives a guy head, she's generally not really getting anything in return. Sure, there are plenty of girls who get off themselves on getting their guy off, but for the majority of girls, giving head doesn't really do anything for them. Giving head puts them literally in a position where they are "servicing" the guy, so it's very, very, very easy for a girl to feel used just for purposes of giving head. For some reason, it's different with sex. You may be using them for sex, but in their mind, sex is supposed to be a mutally enjoyable activity, so if there is "using" going on, it's not in the forefront of her mind and since she could be using you just as much you are her, it's not a big deal. Sooo....because you made it so clear to her that you were disappointed because she wouldn't have sex with you, and then you flat out ASKED her for it, she feels like nothing more than a sexual object. How do you fix this? Go down on her 10 times for every one time she gives you head. Repeat 3x, and I guarantee she'll have sex with you, and she'll have forgotten your stupid comment.
Author TylerC Posted April 26, 2005 Author Posted April 26, 2005 The past 2x she's given me head I've gone down on her. I haven't gotten head since then, and she's been on her period for almost a week, so I couldn't. In fact, I enjoy and want to go down on her.
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