Gloria25 Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 Guys, what would you think of a chick who gives you her tel and you barely know her - but are attracted/interested in her? I mean, even though I'm "direct" at times - I still like to work-up to something. So, I wanna snag him and give him the clear "go" that I'm interested - but at the same time I don't wanna be too aggressive and/or come off as desperate. Thanks for your input
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 Uhh yeah if a girl gave me her number, I would probably flirt back with her if I was attracted. No big deal.
smackie9 Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 The ball is in his court. If he doesn't communicate with you, he wasn't interested. 2
LostOne1 Posted June 1, 2015 Posted June 1, 2015 The ball is in his court. If he doesn't communicate with you, he wasn't interested. I almost always contacted the woman back if she gave me a number. Unless I was totally not interested. Though, I usually always try to give a lady at least 1 chance. Sometimes you just never know...... And, I rather not live with the fact that I never gave her a chance. I wouldn't want to miss out on something special all because I didn't want to give it a chance. 1
Author Gloria25 Posted June 1, 2015 Author Posted June 1, 2015 Well, thanks for the replies... I already am rehearsing the spill I'm gonna give out when I offer the tel. I am in NO WAY gonna insinuate I want sex, a hook-up or nothing. If this guy is attracted to me like I'm hoping he is, I wanna snag his interest w/o coming off as desperate and/or aggressive and while I already see myself sleeping with him (yes, we women know in 10 min if we're gonna do you - doesn't mean we're gonna do you now), I don't wanna casual thing with this situation...so, I wanna play my cards right from the start this time around. If I just wanted a casual thing, I would have a different approach
gaius Posted June 1, 2015 Posted June 1, 2015 It depends on how much effort I had put in so far. If I was about to ask for it anyway and she just preempted me I might call, but if I hadn't put in any she would just become a story for women I was actually interested in to show how sexy I am.
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