Lozfc Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 If your partner has a low sex drive and is unadventurous will it always be that way or can it improve
Poppygoodwill Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 You might open his mind to more adventure, if you experiment and find out what he likes that he might not yet even know about. But low sex drive is not something to fix I fear. Anyhow - best to take a person as they are. It's the only way to start and end happily for both of you.
TaraMaiden2 Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 Possibly. It depends on a number of factors, though. Is it medically-associated? Has he always been like this? Did you know he was like this? Does he really want to change and 'up the ante'? What does he say about the sexual disparity? Does he view it as an issue? Is he feeling pressured by your more frequent/intense urges?
jen1447 Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 IMO, in general, you can't improve libido in an appreciable way, but you can improve performance. "Appreciable way" is key, bc ppl usually don't complain about small differences. So if he's up for it as much as you but just doesn't know how very well, you can train him. If he's not up for it so much, you can't force that beyond a little.
Redhead14 Posted June 1, 2015 Posted June 1, 2015 If your partner has a low sex drive and is unadventurous will it always be that way or can it improve That is a conversation you need to have with the partner. If they are not open to being more adventurous and doing the "work" that is needed to improve things in that area, then it will always be that way.
Recommended Posts