Meli22 Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 So I got my cellphones SIM card replaced , because my phone got stolen. Anyhow, I had backed up all of my OLD numbers to box drop. I no longer have his number but I must have backed my phone up when I did. I was going through my contacts today and noticed a number without a name, I didn't recognise it so I went on what's app to see if the number had a picture so I could figure who it was. I went to click the picture, and well anyone who uses what's app will know there is a call button next to the picture, well I accidentally pressed that. I cancelled straight away. Checked the picture and realized ... It's my ex!!!! I blocked the number straight away and almost died of embarrassment. My ex and I have had no contact for over 2 months and I've had no desire to talk to him. I just feel so foolish even though I know it was a legitimate mistake Please someone console me lol !!!
Ariess10 Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 You'll be alright , you blocked his number right away.. Just keep doing your nc !!
Thecondor1991 Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 Hahaha I think we've all done something like that. I accidentally text me ex the other day...
Author Meli22 Posted May 31, 2015 Author Posted May 31, 2015 I tested with my friend and a what's app call comes up straight away!! Not like a normal call where you have a few seconds before it rings. I just don't want him thinking I did it as a breadcrumb or for attention, because it really wasn't the case! I've felt so proud for how far I've come and it feels like a waste now! Oh noooooo!
Ruby65 Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 Please try to forgive yourself -- it was an accident and beyond your control. Remember the point of NC is to take the focus OFF your ex and what he's thinking/doing/saying and put it back where it belongs: on YOU and your life, your healing, feeling better. Frankly, who cares what he thinks? You're doing great, and that's all that matters. 2
Author Meli22 Posted May 31, 2015 Author Posted May 31, 2015 Haha okay! I hope it hasn't made his ego bigger in any way! I hope he knows it WAS a mistake
dumbass2 Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 If he did reply back in some way to the missed call, would you want to respond back to him and start communicating?
Author Meli22 Posted May 31, 2015 Author Posted May 31, 2015 No, I would literally just explain it was an accident because I'd not want him to think I was doing it for attention or to spark a conversation.
FistOfTheNorthStar Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 Hahaha. Since it's a one time thing I wouldn't stress it too bad, we all make mistakes. I got a little flustered myself setting up the email block on my iPhone, then I remembered I can set up the rules so emails can go straight to the trash!
Author Meli22 Posted May 31, 2015 Author Posted May 31, 2015 That's true, we do make mistakes. I have calmed down a lot now lol! I just know if it was the other way round I'd think oh he's thinking of me hence him calling! So I cringed at the thought of him thinking that about me. I blocked his number so I don't know if he asked why. If he does another way somehow, ill explain straight away and say bye!
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