dannmann1992 Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 This girl told me she liked me and waned to see where this goes with us but I rejected her. She knows I like her, I'm just confused. I call her after two weeks and asked to hang out she tells me no and to stop calling her. 1.Why would she do that? 2. What do I do now?
Gary S Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 Since you rejected her, you bruised her ego and turned her off. Just because she likes you, you can't treat her like dirt and expect her feelings to stay that way. Don't ever take woman who likes you for granted. 6
Author dannmann1992 Posted May 31, 2015 Author Posted May 31, 2015 Since you rejected her, you bruised her ego and turned her off. Just because she likes you, you can't treat her like dirt and expect her feelings to stay that way. Don't ever take woman who likes you for granted. Thanks, you're right. So you think she's not interested anymore? 1
misspond Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 Thanks, you're right. So you think she's not interested anymore? Seems like she's made it pretty clear she doesn't want to spend time with you, which indicates she's got good boundaries in place. 1
Satu Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 Thanks, you're right. So you think she's not interested anymore? Of course she isn't interested. You destroyed her interest. 1
Author dannmann1992 Posted May 31, 2015 Author Posted May 31, 2015 Of course she isn't interested. You destroyed her interest. But it was only two weeks from the time I turned her down and she told me stop calling her, she lost feelings that quickly? This is the part that I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around. 1
misspond Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 But it was only two weeks from the time I turned her down and she told me stop calling her, she lost feelings that quickly? This is the part that I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around. You'll never know. You turned her down and for her that was enough for her to decide to leave it be. Playing games with people is never a good idea. 1
Satu Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 But it was only two weeks from the time I turned her down and she told me stop calling her, she lost feelings that quickly? This is the part that I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around. Time has nothing to do with it. Who in their right mind would want to 'hang out' with someone who had just rejected them? You seem to lack empathy. 3
Popsicle Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 Your confusion turned her off. Women DO NOT like confused men. 1
Gary S Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 Everyone one who has replied to this thread is right. You blew it with this one. Don't take it to bad, you learned something. No problem, just find another, there are plenty of fish in the sea. Sometimes you need to start with a clean slate. 1
Author dannmann1992 Posted May 31, 2015 Author Posted May 31, 2015 Everyone one who has replied to this thread is right. You blew it with this one. Don't take it to bad, you learned something. No problem, just find another, there are plenty of fish in the sea. Sometimes you need to start with a clean slate. So there's no chance huh?
CarrieT Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 So there's no chance huh? She already told you to stop calling her, so stop. The ship has sailed and you can't fix it. 1
smackie9 Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 When they say '' wanted to see where this goes with us'' means she wasn't THAT into you, she kinda liked you. TBH she wasn't interested enough.....prob why you rejected her in the first place.
Redhead14 Posted June 1, 2015 Posted June 1, 2015 This girl told me she liked me and waned to see where this goes with us but I rejected her. She knows I like her, I'm just confused. I call her after two weeks and asked to hang out she tells me no and to stop calling her. 1.Why would she do that? 2. What do I do now? I rejected her She knows I like her If you rejected her how does she KNOW you like her. You've blown it, let it go. 1) Her feelings are hurt 2) Stop calling her
katiegrl Posted June 1, 2015 Posted June 1, 2015 (edited) **This girl told me she liked me and waned to see where this goes with us but I rejected her.** She knows I like her, I'm just confused. I call her after two weeks and asked to hang out she tells me no and to stop calling her. 1.Why would she do that? 2. What do I do now? Why did SHE do that? Because you rejected her! Duh Question for you. Why did YOU reject her???? You can't just toy with girls' emotions like that dude. Reject her, then two weeks later want her back. Hell, she probably thinks as soon as she goes back to you, you will reject her again! I would, most women would. She sounds smart! You on the other hand sound really mixed up and confused. So why did you reject her? And why do you want her back now....two weeks later? Edited June 1, 2015 by katiegrl
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