WhiteApple Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 Hi Guys, I know this girl for 8 months. We didn't really talk much for past 6 months, till 2 months ago I started to develop feelings for her. Following are some of the points: 1. I asked her out for a date at the Amusement Park as she say she never go for one before. She agreed, but due to some miscommunication, she thought it was a group outing. So in the end, I explained that I am trying to get her on a date, but she say she was afraid that I would be bored if only both of us (maybe she indirectly reject my date T.T). So I invite my friend along and it a great day. 2. Since we shared a group of friend, and she NEVER join any events my friend invited her. But she joined every single event I asked her out. 3. She never ever initiate any text, but reply to all my text within seconds or longest one minute. The chat usually last an hour or so before we run out of topic to talk about and I am usually the one going off without saying bye. Is it bad for me to do so? 4. She always walked past me looking down and giggling away. And when I talk to her, we stare into each other eyes but I am always the one look away as I am shy. 5. Recently she share about her past relationship and also telling me that she doesn't like one of my friend (because our group of friend always make fun of both of them being together) These are points I noticed. Maybe they mean something or maybe not. I am rather sad that she insist on a group outing rather than a date. Do I still stand a chance with her? Should I ask for a second date to a dinner or something rather than an amusement park?
Gary S Posted May 31, 2015 Posted May 31, 2015 If she's turning down one-on-one date offers, she's not seriously interested in you.
hollycraze Posted June 1, 2015 Posted June 1, 2015 You've built comfort well, but the attraction & rapport didn't! She's not attracted enough! How to fix it? Have attractive characters & attractive lifestyle! You've known her for 8 months...but you had a date just now? That's the problem! She feels awkward! If I were you, I would treat her like my gf since the first month... Send me message if you want to know more...
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