Luckyguapa Posted May 30, 2015 Posted May 30, 2015 Hi everyone! I met a guy on a dating website about 2 years ago now. Things were really good, we got on well, and he would text and ring me all the time. He doesn't live too far away from me, and it actually turned out that his sister went to school with me, so we seemed to have things in common. I was going on holiday shortly so we agreed to go for a drink when I was back home. When I arrived back home after my holiday, I got in touch with him to arrange this drink. He now seemed distant and kept giving me excuses. Then came the dreaded "I'm not ready for a relatiobship", followed by "I have a lot going on at the minute in my home life". I had already resigned myself to the fact that maybe he might have met someone else, and was letting me down gently, OR, he was being truthful about problems in his home life, either way, I backed off and left him too it. 6 months later, out of the blue I received a text off him. We started chatting again, and he suggested going for this "overdue" drink. Then once again, I could sense him pulling away, until eventually, I didn't hear off him at all. Exactly a year to the day, I once again receive a text off him out of the blue. Not wanting to be rude, I was civil. We spoke for a while but he was being very flirty. Saying he's just bought an apartment and did I want to move in and "split the damage", talking about taking me on holiday, just really random things like that, and once again, did I want to go for a drink?. A few days later I messaged him and asked when he was free to go for this drink cause i have a weekend off next weekend, and zilch. Disappeared off the face of the earth again, however, has since been on whatsapp and Facebook. Now, I'm not into playing games. He needs to make his mind up or go away. You can't be all over me one day and then ignore me the next. I really cannot understand what is going on in his head! And just to clarify, I've sent him once message asking about this drink, and have left it at that. I haven't bombarded him with messages and smothered him, but it's been a week now since I sent it, and still no reply.
Satu Posted May 30, 2015 Posted May 30, 2015 He's a total time-waster. I wouldn't bother communicating with him. What would be the point?
bolase Posted May 30, 2015 Posted May 30, 2015 What a selfish guy! Don't reply to anything of his. You won't get anything out of it as he isn't truly interested. I think he just contacts you when he is desperate for attention. 1
Author Luckyguapa Posted May 30, 2015 Author Posted May 30, 2015 When I saw his message the other day, I was in two minds whether to reply or not and did wonder "is he just messaging me because he is bored". I think he just likes to play games. Thanks for your replies guys! x
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