puresoul Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 I have been separated from my husband since early March cause I found out he was cheating on me. Since then I have been trying to be content and find my own self again. We have a son together which I am taking care of him always have. About the time that I left my ex I might this other guy who is very attractive and very funny. At first we just saw each other and would just say Hi and give a hug. But a few weeks later we where meeting up to go to a baseball game and now we both meet up on the weekends. I am scared I guess because the last date I had was four five years ago in high school. I am starting to realize that my ex really f**ked me up and I feel guilty that I am with him, but when I am with my new friend everything the pain the depression and stress it goes all away when I am just around him. This past weekend he went out of town and I was thinking to myself that I should not be getting involve with this great guy because I need to think about me and my son I need to start doing things for myself. If I continue to have him around I am only going to put more stress on top on the stress I have now. I mean dude he is so funny and just amazing but he is also in the airforce and I am probably thinking that he is going to be leaving soon. So I am just creating more painful days for myself. But It feel so right when I talk to him or when I am with him. Since I have been talking to him more I think about my ex less and less and get the feeling where I don't care about my ex and his whore(my ex friend now). I don't know what to do. I also don't want to bring son in this either. Cause Matt (new guy) wants to take my son and I out for dinner. I don't if I can to that.........oh what to do!
Skullcrusher Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 Now if you said the last time you were in a relationship was 4-5 years ago, I'd shrug it. But you broke up with your ex-husband since March and that is too little time to heal up considering it was a very long relationship. He makes you feel all good and stuff because he is known as the "rebound" dude, the guy that fills in the position that the other man has left. Something seems all wrong about this for some reason and I won't explain...
Author puresoul Posted April 25, 2005 Author Posted April 25, 2005 To be honest that didn't help! I do fill odd and guilty but when I think about my relationship with my ex is was crap he never did anything and used me and my money. His answer for me when I asked him why he cheated on me was I was to perfect. And when I am with this new friend of mine I feel happy and feel that I am going to be okay and I am going to start accomplishing things for myself. I now that I don't want to have anything more then a friendship with him but its seems that even that rule goes away when I am with him too. I don't know I guess what I am asking is if I should sit down a tell him that I am not looking to be with anyone and that I do like him just its not a good time for me?
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