Wisecrack Posted May 29, 2015 Posted May 29, 2015 Is that even a word? It's weird, we're part of the same social football team hence there is a lot of team banter that takes place between her teasing me as hard as I tease her. At the same time there is a bit of flirtations going i.e. sexual innuendo's thrown by her. Yet off the sporting field and when the team (a very social team), catches up afterwards, we literally turn into two silent awkward individuals. If I turn up at a venue, I may acknowledge her with a smile and she reciprocates and that's it. If I'm seated somewhere, then she is most likely at the other end e.g. two benches with two friends on the other and me on one and she goes and sits with the others leaving me solo. And yet if she has something to do or needs me in a certain way, it's a light touch on the shoulder or a hug as she asks. Then back to her distance. You know, I'm not even thinking of this as a dating side of things, I just want to figure her out and have a good friendly old fashioned chat!
Michelle ma Belle Posted May 29, 2015 Posted May 29, 2015 If you want a friendly old fashioned chat then why not initiate one yourself? Though it sounds like you're just as lost for words as she is so then my question to you is why? Why are you lost for words?
Torii Posted May 29, 2015 Posted May 29, 2015 I agree with Michelle. It seems that you aren't sure how to start the initial conversation - and that's completely normal! Everybody gets shy once in a while, especially when they meet somebody that makes them experience an inability to express those romanticized emotions. Have you tried speaking with her before? If so, how does your conversing with each other usually go? Sometimes when we're confronted with our emotions, we aren't sure how to react to them and to the person that makes us feel that way. Again, completely normal. It takes a long time to get used to these feelings, no matter how long we've been on the dating scene!
Recommended Posts