Marshbear Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 Is it possible to increase your sexual worth in the eyes of people? If so, how would you go about doing it?
alphamale Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 Originally posted by Marshbear Is it possible to increase your sexual worth in the eyes of people? If so, how would you go about doing it? 1. cosmetic surgery 2. lose weight 3. dress better 4. become smarter 5. get a raise at work 6. buy a convertible corvette (in red) 7. be seen with sexually attractive people 8. etc. etc etc
Pocky Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 Originally posted by Marshbear Is it possible to increase your sexual worth in the eyes of people? If so, how would you go about doing it? Sexual worth? Like worthy of getting laid? Or worthy of being found sexually attractive?
LittleMiss Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 Originally posted by Pocky Sexual worth? Like worthy of getting laid? Or worthy of being found sexually attractive? That's what I was wondering too! Not sure what your asking exactly?
ConfusedInOC Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 Originally posted by westernxer ...and tight leather. *sneer* Oh man, I once dated a girl who loved leather pants. Sorry, where's the drool smilie?!
Linlin Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 Originally posted by ConfusedInOC Confidence is sexy......think about it. I have had a golf pro calling me for the last 2 days to go out. I asked him why me when there were a million, young looking barbie dolls in the bar. 3 reasons given: 1. You're pretty 2. You're smart 3. CONFIDENCE!!! If you want the attention, you got to give them attitude! Not being rude, but feel good about yourself and confident!!!
ConfusedInOC Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 Originally posted by Linlin I have had a golf pro calling me for the last 2 days to go out. I asked him why me when there were a million, young looking barbie dolls in the bar. 3 reasons given: 1. You're pretty 2. You're smart 3. CONFIDENCE!!! If you want the attention, you got to give them attitude! Not being rude, but feel good about yourself and confident!!! Can I get an AMEN?!
laRubiaBonita Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 Worth is based upon supply and demand. so lessen your supply, and you will be seen as more of a commodity.
alphamale Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 Originally posted by laRubiaBonita Worth is based upon supply and demand. so true, LRB! I also must add, LRB, that when you are lucid (i.e. not stoned), you are one of the most insightful posters on LS
westernxer Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 Originally posted by laRubiaBonita Worth is based upon supply and demand. so lessen your supply, and you will be seen as more of a commodity. Last I heard, war was a great way to reduce the supply of men.
Author Marshbear Posted April 25, 2005 Author Posted April 25, 2005 Originally posted by Pocky Sexual worth? Like worthy of getting laid? Or worthy of being found sexually attractive? I am talking in general terms. I guess all of the above. This is a general relationship question.....
laRubiaBonita Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale so true, LRB! I also must add, LRB, that when you are lucid (i.e. not stoned), you are one of the most insightful posters on LS thanks! but how do you know where my state of consciousness lies???
laRubiaBonita Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 Originally posted by westernxer Last I heard, war was a great way to reduce the supply of men. Oh, but heart disease is much worse!
Pocky Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 Originally posted by Marshbear I am talking in general terms. I guess all of the above. This is a general relationship question..... I think I need a hit because I really don't understand what you're asking. The answers vary enough to leave one thinking the question has multiple forms of interpretation. I've never heard the term "sexual worth." If you're talking how to change your physical appearance so you're more sexually attractive then there are many things you could do and I think AM made a list of those. If you're talking about about your ability to get a man to bed, then a lot of that probably has to do with your physical appearance as well and how willing the man is. If you're talking about relationships and how you can increase your attraction to the opposite sex for a potential relationship then I think it depends on the type of man you're looking for. However, in all honesty, I don't know what you're asking.
westernxer Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 LaRubiaBonita wrote: Oh, but heart disease is much worse! I'm referring to young, vibrant, sexy men who will rock your world.
laRubiaBonita Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 Originally posted by westernxer I'm referring to young, vibrant, sexy men who will rock your world. well if they all go to war, i just may have to too! i will chant: "Make love, Not War"
tiki Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 I think I get what you're looking for. Become a bedfreak and an ultimate slut. Your vibes will exude you. GAUR-AN-TEED.
Lil Honey Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 I'm going to assume that the meaning of your question is, "How do I get others to see me as having value, instead of a piece of furniture to use and throw away." If I'm correct, my response would be, When both men and women stop behaving like pieces of disposable furniture, they will be treated like something other than . . .
laRubiaBonita Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 Originally posted by tiki I think I get what you're looking for. Become a bedfreak and an ultimate slut. Your vibes will exude you. GAUR-AN-TEED. except you cannot be an all-you-can-eat-buffet, this is where you decrease the supply after making it known that the buffet is the bomb!
Author Marshbear Posted April 25, 2005 Author Posted April 25, 2005 Originally posted by Lil Honey I'm going to assume that the meaning of your question is, "How do I get others to see me as having value, instead of a piece of furniture to use and throw away." If I'm correct, my response would be, When both men and women stop behaving like pieces of disposable furniture, they will be treated like something other than . . . I am refering to seeing others as having romantic value and not just as platonic value. I understand the supply and demand theory and that we need confidence and self esteem but can we raise our sexual value in the eyes of our peers? Sexual value is a term that describes a persons worth romantically.
carpeyourmom Posted April 28, 2005 Posted April 28, 2005 Confidence! Confidence! Confidence! This is a trait both men and women are attracted to. If you seem needy or unsure of your self that is one of the fastest ways to lower your sexual worth to your peers. A way to increase your sexual worth to your partner is to give them a sexual experience that is totally different than they have ever had in the past. Most people have the same moves witch means BORING!!! They are not going to remember or be thinking about you the next day when you aren't there. If you do something totally different and unexpected What do you think they are going to be thinking about the next day? The incredible experience they had with YOU. They will be thinking about the way you made them feel and they will want more. Oh yeah one more thing think about the last time you fell in love with someone. Did it happen right away on your first date? I don't think so you started to fall for them when you were on your own thinking about them, building them up in your mind all by your self. The keys are to be different from everyone else, give them a feeling they have never had before, and make them think about you.
mental_traveller Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 Originally posted by Marshbear Is it possible to increase your sexual worth in the eyes of people? If so, how would you go about doing it? Alcohol.
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