lukekarts Posted May 28, 2015 Posted May 28, 2015 Following the first date (which was last night), there was a brief whatsapp conversation: Her: Home safely! Thanks for a lovely evening. Me: You're welcome. I had a good time, and would definitely like to see you again Her: Cool we'll sort something. Night night for now! Me: Goodnight Obviously there's no dialog since. Is it too soon to call to arrange the next date? And as I (annoyingly) don't have phone signal at home, is it ok for me to initiate a wifi call over whatsapp, or would it be courteous to let her know my plan in case she's not on wifi? Just looking for some quick guidance then this topic can be banished. Thanks!
Redhead14 Posted May 28, 2015 Posted May 28, 2015 Following the first date (which was last night), there was a brief whatsapp conversation: Her: Home safely! Thanks for a lovely evening. Me: You're welcome. I had a good time, and would definitely like to see you again Her: Cool we'll sort something. Night night for now! Me: Goodnight Obviously there's no dialog since. Is it too soon to call to arrange the next date? And as I (annoyingly) don't have phone signal at home, is it ok for me to initiate a wifi call over whatsapp, or would it be courteous to let her know my plan in case she's not on wifi? Just looking for some quick guidance then this topic can be banished. Thanks! I'd wait until tomorrow. It would have been better if you did that right at the end of the date. For now, I'd let it be. She's signed off. If you contact her now, she may find it intrusive and/or maybe a little desperate.
alphamale Posted May 28, 2015 Posted May 28, 2015 I'd wait until tomorrow. It would have been better if you did that right at the end of the date. For now, I'd let it be. She's signed off. If you contact her now, she may find it intrusive and/or maybe a little desperate. i would wait another day but agree with most of the above
Gaeta Posted May 28, 2015 Posted May 28, 2015 We're Thursday already. Call her up tonight and ask her out for this weekend. Don't wait tomorrow, Friday is too late to ask someone out. It will feel like a last minute invitation.
Author lukekarts Posted May 28, 2015 Author Posted May 28, 2015 It is Thursday evening here so almost 23 hours after the date. I called, based on the third reply. She didn't answer but messaged to apologise and suggested we arrange by Whatsapp. I assume she's more comfortable with that and it goes with my first impression of her being shy. She has suggested she's busy this weekend but we're in the process of arranging something for next week. Cautiously optimistic?
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