wonderwoman83 Posted May 28, 2015 Posted May 28, 2015 I hope you can help, I just can't get my head around what went wrong. I was single for years and loved every minute of it, I am 31 and believed I would be single forever and was fine with this.....then out the blue I met Paul. Paul is four years younger than me, but he was charming, caring, mature and not scared to show or tell how much he loved me. people would always ask of what we were up to as he always did the nicest of things for me. I will never know if after the first year together, he got too comfy and stopped trying or his friend recently became single roughly the same time but Paul changed. I didn't seem to be a priority anymore he would squeeze me in when he was free and not out with his single mate. He would cancel on me as he was too hungover from the night before, but go to the pub the next night, the pub is next to my house to see his friends and not think of popping in to Say hi. Don't get me wrong although I wasn't seeing him as much he was still in contact with me through text and phone calls. For the first time ever I felt lonely, I have never ever felt lonely being single so I knew this wasn't right being in a relationship and feeling like this. I finally told him how I felt and he flipped, he said he was too hungover to deal with this, he said I had lost the plot and need to speak to someone and that i was away with fairies. He then said he quits (our relationship). He then sent another text confirming this saying he was too busy with friends, pub, band and work. I have never ever heard him speak like this and especially not to me. In sheer panic, shock and hurt I didn't reply I deleted him. It's a month tomorrow that this happened and ive never heard or seen him since which makes me think he doesn't care. I can't get my head around why he attacked me so personally and how he could end our relationship as easy as he did. I honestly thought he would get in touch once he calmed down. What the hell has happened
DexterLS Posted May 28, 2015 Posted May 28, 2015 If he hasn't contacted you after a month to work things out, should you really care? 1
Ariess10 Posted May 28, 2015 Posted May 28, 2015 If he hasn't contacted you after a month to work things out, should you really care? Easier said then done , sometimes you just gotta except what is and try your best to move on. You'll find someone that puts you first and doesn't make you a option 1
kasop Posted May 28, 2015 Posted May 28, 2015 He wasent man enough to break things off right. He was looking for an easy out. He strung u along. Focus on these things when u start to miss him. You will find someone better.
Meli22 Posted May 28, 2015 Posted May 28, 2015 I'd love to answer but I've gave up trying to figure out the opposite sex 1
SLee Posted May 29, 2015 Posted May 29, 2015 I agree with kasop. He was stringing you along. He probably started feeling this way awhile ago. Trying to figure it out is going to drive you nuts. This guy was a jerk, so there's really no point anyway.
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