YoYo Relationship...how 2 deal?give up!!!

[Starnette83]

Hello people, for those who know me..umm ihave a yo yo relationship with my b/f, or should i call him ex...ahhh

 

OK heres the deal:

together 4 years and 5 months

Eachothers first (sexual) and serious relationship

 

 

Well ive loved my bf unconditionally, at first i was so good to him, thats until he started hurting me by flirting with girls and saying he didnt know if he loved me, so we would break up get back. When we were broken up i met guys, and kept it goin until we were together in hopes of meetin a right guy to dump him for.

 

SO far ive met lotsa guys but NONE worth it to dump my bf over, cuz these guys r just in it for one thing, and im not a slut (only been sexual with my bf)

 

Ok so my bf or ex got mad at me 2 days ago, i was in his comp and found porn (WOO WHATS NEW?) so i was a bit bothered but i didnt cry, or scream or get emotional over it, cuz ive done this before and it doesnt work just made me feel like ****. So i just was like "Oh gosh"and remained distant from him, didnt wanna be near him, cuz it does get to a point were its sickening especially when i give it to him ALOT!!..so he got mad because he said i was overreacting, so im like "whatever" so he took me home and said he didnt wanna deal with this and pretty much broke up with me, i cried, but just a few tears but didnt hold him back....and so he left.

then the next day he didnt call me at all, and i didnt call him..

 

so at night i decided to smoke with some friends, and i ended up texting him "high without u" then i called him twice but he didnt pick up.

 

now today in the mornign he text me saying "hope u had fun getting high , bye" i was going to call him and explain but i was like "WHATS THE POINT?" so i dont think imma call him, i just feel so sick of it, him breaking up only cuz i feel a certain way, its like we fight and he sais "Its over"...like what the hell? its just so annoying already, and tho i havent met any right guy, i think that its better to be alone, then deal with this crap..........

 

AHHHH give me some feedback, thank you!

[westernxer]

I think you're full of drama.

 

Ease up and slow things down a little.

 

Oh, to be young again.

[sarah12]

I agree. It seems pretty clear that you don't belong together, so why not just cut off contact and move on with your life? I know it's easier said than done, but you need to take yourself out of the situation which makes you unhappy. Yo yo relationships tend to end down the road anyways, might as well cut your losses now.

 

Also, every guy I know looks at porn, it's no big deal. I guess it may be to some, but it's not like they don't want to have sex if they look at porn, I don't get what the big deal is?