Michael 93 Posted May 28, 2015 Posted May 28, 2015 Hey Guys, Hope you can all help me. I found this site after breaking up with my long term girlfriend. Been a while since I've been on actually but I know this is the best place for advice! After splitting up with my ex my confidence and trust was shot, I am now overjoyed to say I have found a woman who I am now in a relationship with and care about massively! I haven't felt this way in such a long long time. I still have some confidence and worries due to my ex saying that I rarely appreciated her and contributed. The reason I am here today is to ask. My new girlfriend is great, she cooks for me, runs me baths when I come back from the gym, washes my clothes and is helping me learn to drive with theory tests and even lessons in her car, I have been housesitting with her recently and she gets up early in the morning to take me to work etc. I have never ever had a girl do these types of things before and I know that I am so so lucky to have someone who does that and makes me so happy. (Those who are in LTR please don't judge me as I know this stuff should come natural in a RS, I'm 22 this is the first one for me!! ) What I'm asking is, Whilst I have done the whole gift thing and taking her out to restaurants and days out etc, what kind of things can I do to show my appreciation and that make her feel sweet. I guess in a way my ex's criticism of me has me panicking as such. But I want to make an effort to show her this is for real and to make her happy Any tips, advice and guidance would be really welcomed, and I know there is no better place for it. "RS Kings fire away!!" Thank you Mike
Toodaloo Posted May 28, 2015 Posted May 28, 2015 Tell her how much you appreciate those things, make sure you reciprocate by giving her massages when she is tired and running a bath for her when she is tired, keep up the flowers etc. Take her out for a meal or a "date" and tell her how beautiful she is and how supportive she is etc. Its a two way thing and you have to keep working at it... Glad you found someone!
Author Michael 93 Posted May 28, 2015 Author Posted May 28, 2015 Tell her how much you appreciate those things, make sure you reciprocate by giving her massages when she is tired and running a bath for her when she is tired, keep up the flowers etc. Take her out for a meal or a "date" and tell her how beautiful she is and how supportive she is etc. Its a two way thing and you have to keep working at it... Glad you found someone! Thank you Toodaloo! I'm glad too, its such a nice experience. Thank you for those ideas! I'll be sure to implement them soon. I was thinking maybe getting up early one day and doing her breakfast in bed also, maybe clean her car? I am planning a date night soon too. Glad to know I'm going in the right direction! Sometimes my insecurities make it hard for me not worry! Mike
Toodaloo Posted May 28, 2015 Posted May 28, 2015 Sounds fab Mike. I am sure she will really appreciate all of those things! Keep at it!
jen1447 Posted May 28, 2015 Posted May 28, 2015 Take her on a date or a weekend thing that entirely about her - sexually, practically, and so on. Get her spa treatments, buy flowers, take her to dinners, bscly be at her back and call for whatever she needs and wants, and tell her ahead of time that's what the plan is. Actions speak louder than words, so you showing your appreciation, genuinely, will make her very happy. 1
Author Michael 93 Posted May 28, 2015 Author Posted May 28, 2015 Hey Jen, Thank you.. I did have a spa day in mind actually. Most definitely, she is very about "actions over words" so that will fit well. Thank you 1
jen1447 Posted May 28, 2015 Posted May 28, 2015 You're welcome. Sounds like you've got your head on straight and your priorities in order. Good things will come to you sir.
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