LindaRose Posted May 27, 2015 Posted May 27, 2015 I've posted how my ex broke up with me via WhatsApp message after midnight. I must say after the initial shock I was doing fairly well I must say, didn't call/message or stalk him at all to say anything. Problem: 13 days in he messages me "hope all is well on your end. Xo" I don't respond. Even worse I see him on a daily basis and the **** head choose to park either in front of me or behind me every single day even though its a big parking lot. Last night I get the same message again "hope all is well with you. XO" wtf is with the "xo" oh and I still didn't reply. Honestly seeing his car whenever I'm leaving and his message is not helpful and just ruins my day. Then the rest of my day is filled with replaying convos and ****. How did you all deal and what advice would you give me. TIA
joseb Posted May 27, 2015 Posted May 27, 2015 he feels a bit bad about dumping you so wants to alleviate the guilt by asking how you feel. Perhaps time to block his number.
Meli22 Posted May 27, 2015 Posted May 27, 2015 Well done for not responding I agree you could block his number. My ex hasn't reached out since the break up. Well he did the day after to which I asked him to not contact me again. So I haven't had that dilemma of having to ignore him. If he does reach out, depending on what he said, I think ignoring would be the best way too. And yes it sounds like he is checking in to alleviate guilt or see whether he still "has" you there.
Author LindaRose Posted May 28, 2015 Author Posted May 28, 2015 Thank you both for responding.... Yeah I think its time I take that next step, not sure if I'm ready (28th day) but it might be necessary. Oh and he definitely doesn't have me, one thing I realized in this short span of time is that he lost a great person/partner. 1
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