audiojunky Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 Last night I went out with a girl. We had a great time.. she is beautiful.. even though we are two completely different individuals we had a lot to talk about to keep each other entertained. The night ended with a nice makeout session before she had to go.. at 4:30am. Today I was contemplating about when to call her, but she seemed to beat me to it in the late afternoon. We had some brief small-talk on the phone.. I told her that I had a good time last night and she responded the same way. I told her that I would call her soon and that we could do something this week. There are no real problems here. I think that it is probably obvious that we both like each other. The only thing that I don't want to do is screw it up by being too distant or getting too comfortable with her too fast. I'm getting that feeling of urgency that I want to be around her as much as possible to get to know her but at the same time I don't want to become undesirable to her by making myself too available. Maybe this is an immature thing to think.. should I just go with how I feel and let myself call her when I feel like it.. or does someone here have some words of restraint that will allow me to make her even more interested while keeping some healthy space? I also feel like I need some advice on the gameplan on what we should do together the next time we make a date. -a
bicyclejunk Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 Take her out on a Picnic. Plan something kinda nice maybe this weekend. Don't worry about the being too distant/Too available thing. Just play it cool, but don't be annoying, like your too good for everything. Just be yourself. Stay calm and be yourself. Why not call her up tomorrow or the day after and see what her plans are for the weekend and see if she'd like to go to lunch and then set up a picnic buy some deli sandwiches, drinks, whatever and take a blanket and hangout in the sun, then after maybe go see a movie and walk around somewhere at night, get hot cocoa, etc. Don't do the Swingers (1996 film) thing and wait 2-3 days to call. Just be yourself and call her up and set a date and time to meet up again. then do your thang.
Dreamgirl03 Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 yeah..just be yourself. I mean if u want to call and talk to her, go ahead..call her..see if she has any plans for the weekend and plan a night out for the 2 of you. As long as u dont call a million times a day or wait 2 or 3 days to call your fine..u dont wanna be too annoying yet at the same time let her know your definately interested.
Author audiojunky Posted April 27, 2005 Author Posted April 27, 2005 I called her monday night.. unfortunately I got her voicemail.. so I left her a message with a couple times that I would be free this week. I haven't heard back yet! This is kind of disappointing me.. she called me on her way home from my place sat night.. and then sunday during the day called me.. and now all of a sudden she is slow to pick up the phone again to return my call. i feel like she is making me wait on purpose or something... not sure? What is my next step now? lol a
ugest Posted May 5, 2005 Posted May 5, 2005 i think she's not back home yet. dont worry she will reply once she gets the message. she has a life you know. she doesnt sit and wait for your call.
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